How to impress a woman in a restaurant

I remember I was some months ago with two of my friends in a restaurant in Amsterdam, we were having a wonderful time and next to us was an American couple, they seemed like they have just met and they were in their first dates, I couldn't believe how the guy was acting and how was the woman reacting to him.

It was awful, he was doing everything wrong and she wasn't impressed at all!

That’s why I'm writing this post today, I would like to show you how to impress a woman in a restaurant, the right way of course, I will give you the most important tips to always keep in mind.

The first thing to keep in mind is to always be chivalrous with her.

Chivalry is a lost art, most men don't know about it or don't believe that it would work, but to women, it’s always their dream to meet a chivalrous man.

Whenever you are inviting a woman to a restaurant, the essential chivalrous things you can do are:

1. Open doors for her


2. pull out the chair for her


3. Stand up when she excuses herself


4. If it’s cold, ask her how she feels and take care of it

Trust me, even if these things look a little outdated, they are extremely pleasing to women and next day, she is going to tell all her girlfriends about the things you did and how great you were as a date.

The second thing to do to impress a woman in a restaurant is to forget about yourself.

I simply mean here that you have to avoid talking about your accomplishments and brag about your properties or things you have done, you need to give her time because she is the one who must be attracted and seduced, most guys forget about this fact and the first thing they are going to do after sitting is starting to talk about themselves and how great they are!

The best thing you can do here is to listen to her and let her speak her mind, trust me, it’s always a great thing when you find a nice thing about a person by surprise, that’s why whenever you brag about something, the woman is not going to feel great about you because you will simply look like you are trying to compensate for your low self-esteem and low self-confidence!

So, let her speak and listen to her, of course, you need to talk from time to time, but in general, she must be the one talking and sharing.

The third thing you must do is taking care of her.

Whenever I'm with my girlfriend in a restaurant or a coffee, one of the most important things I will do is ask her what she wants to order, then I will speak directly to the waiter when he comes.

This will look like a macho thing, but women enjoy it because you are playing the role of the leader and they feel more feminine and cared for.

The fourth thing is to advise her.

Believe me, most menus are huge and very confusing, women may find it very difficult to select something because first of all they are going to miss enjoying a nice meal and the second thing is that they are going to look stupid!

This is why I highly recommend that you only go to restaurants and places you know well, you should have already came there and tried the food because you are going to have the responsibility of making a decision for the woman you are with.

It’s quite comfortable and reassuring for a woman to receive advice from a man about things to try, but only do this if she is confused and seems to not have made her mind.