How to find, meet and date local women

This is the ultimate guide on how to find, meet and date local women that you have been looking for all these times.

I'm not going to tell you some theoretical techniques about self-confidence or self-esteem, what you are going to learn about in this guide to finding local women are pure techniques, in other words: the How To.

How to find the right woman for you

Finding the right woman for you is not going to be an easy task, it’s going to be filled with crises and rejections, however if you follow the steps I'm going to lay over to you in this post, it will become very easy and also very successful.

Most men are unsure of what they are looking for, this is why they will be simply looking for a woman, any woman!

The ultimate way to meet a woman

From the dawn of time, men have been trying to find the ultimate ways to meeting women, however this has proved to be always tricky and risky!

Not anymore, I'm going to share with you my ultimate way to meet a woman and make her like you very quickly, I'm not going to use trickery ideas or NLP, I'm only going to give you tips on what you should be doing in order to make her like you very quickly.

My ultimate way to meet women is consisting of five steps that you should achieve flawlessly, if you do so, you are simply guaranteed to have massive success with women quickly and easily.

• The first step is to have control on yourself and your mind.

Even if you have a great way to meeting women, you will not have success unless you can get your mind and your body to work with you.

Women are very complex creatures, they are going to analyze men's movements and behaviors all the time to see whether they are going to make great partners or not.

If you are not accustomed to meeting women and interacting with them, your body and your mind are going to betray you all the time.

This is why most guys are having so much troubles meeting women, it’s because when they try it, their minds and bodies are going to screw things up for them quickly.

For example, you saw a gorgeous woman that you want to approach, your brain will start immediately to tell you that you are going to fail and that it’s no use, then your body is going to start shivering, blushing, and your legs are going to be blocked as if you are going to die!

This is what I mean by having no control on your body and brain when meeting women.

This is the most important obstacle to get over, if you don't do it, no matter how much information you are going to get about meeting women, you will fail!

So how do you take control over your mind?

The answer is a bit difficult to apply, but it will work every single time.

When your mind starts putting obstacles on your way to success, simply close your eyes and breathe deeply and slowly and imagine yourself writing in a piece of paper all your negative ideas and then burning the paper.

Trust me; this is one of the best ways to get rid of negative thinking from your life.

At first it will be very difficult, but with practice, your mind is going to fear coming up with negative ideas because you will be punishing it for doing so.

• The second step is to have control of your outer looks.

The best way to meet a woman is to become desirable, and you cannot become desirable unless you take great care of your looks.

Most guys imagine that women only care about personality, this is not true, all women care about your personality and your looks as well.

If you pay attention to only your personality and forget about your looks, women are going to think of you as a loser, and if you focus only on your looks and forget about your personality, women are going to think of you as a loser and a player!

I'm sure that you've already noticed this: women are going to look desirably when a good looking guy walks near them! It’s simple, women are human beings after all, and they seek beauty in their lives.

So, your next mission is to start caring about your looks and to start only wearing great clothes and great outfits.

I'm not going to tell you exactly how you should dress, but there are some clear rules that will guarantee your success with women, these rules are very simple:

1. Always care about your little details, your nails, hair, teeth must be perfect


2. Don’t go out without polishing your shoes


3. Always put great cologne chosen and approved by other women, you can go to Amazon.com and check out guys colognes and read the reviews that women posted


4. Take a woman with you shopping and let her advice you on what to wear and how to wear it, and if you don't have a woman in your life right now, simply ask women at department stores, they will help you gladly.

• The third step is to know where to meet women.

This step is all about knowing the best places to meet women that are already looking for you.

Most guys think that a club or a bar can be an amazing place to meeting women, this is totally true if you are interested in drunk and unreliable women, prostitutes, and heavy competition from other guys, that’s why, you should avoid bars and clubs, they will only bring you trouble if you are unaware of what you are doing.

The best places to meet women are:

1. Bookstores if you like to read


2. Health food stores


3. The church, trust me a lot of women are already looking for you there because they think that a guy who goes to church must be a serious and a great guy, a catch.


4. Local super market


5. Coffee shops


6. And department stores

These are the safest places to meeting women because most women there are either looking for you or they are relaxed and feeling comfortable, so they will not reject you violently, they will be very nice and friendly towards you.

• The fourth step is to know how to approach these women.

One of the most important ideas you need to understand from this post is that approaching women is a numbers game.

By this I mean that the more women you are going to approach, the more success you are going to get.

Stop focusing on simply one woman, this is a waste of time and a waste of energy and resources, you must approach at least ten women every single week in order to become rejection proof, I've gone through this and trust me it’s very easy, you just need to plan your week ahead.

Now, let me tell you about a rejection proof method to approaching women.

The first thing you need to do is to find a woman you want to approach, then start noticing what she is doing, for example, if she is looking at some supplements, walk to her and asked her for advice about nutrition, trust me most women will never reject you if you go to them looking great and having a fantastic smile, they are simply going to say no if they are already in a relationship or are not interested, and if they are interested, they will smile back at you and welcome your advances.

Start chatting with her and start getting to know her a little bit, let her talk about herself and what she's doing, let her bring out some of her personality in the conversation, keep asking her about the things she is doing and why she has chosen a certain brand over another one etc.

Women love to talk, and when they find a guy who will listen to them, they will talk even more and they are going to feel very comfortable and at ease with him.

• And the fifth step is to know how to get phone numbers.

This ultimate way to meet a woman cannot be complete without showing you how to get phone numbers.

It’s because looking great, having a great mindsets and successfully approaching a woman is not enough if you cannot get to know her more and create a healthy and fulfilling relationship with her.

So, the best way to get her phone number is tell her that you've enjoyed talking to her, smile at her, and simply take a piece of paper and a pen from your pocket, try to buy an eye-catching and good-looking pen, you can find some great ones at Amazon.com

If she doesn't want to give you her phone number, simply look at her right in the eyes, smile at her little and don't say anything, just hand her the pen and paper.

She will do it if you are insistent enough, if she doesn't, move on, no need to waste your time with her.

This is the best way to meet a woman, it’s the same way I've used many times and trust me it will work for you too.

Where to meet women online for free?

Meeting women online for free is a reality, and although many websites are going to promise you that you will meet a lot of women without paying, they are simply lying to you and are going to rip you off your personal information and even your money!

In this extensive guide, you are going to learn about the best way to meet women online for free; this way is guaranteed and will get you many positive answers without ever paying a penny!

• Let's start with the first step to meeting women online for free, getting ready.

In this step, I'm going to tell you about the mindset of meeting women online, what you should have in your personality and confidence in order to attract women online.

Now, let me ask you a simple question:

What do women want from guys they meet online?

They are not interested in a serious relationship, at first, and they are not interested in serious talks, they are only interested in having fun and having some good laughs.

This means that you have to avoid talking about serious matters when meeting women online, and one more thing, try to be as much fun as possible.

If you don't know how to make women laugh, then you must consult the following post: click here.

• The second step to meeting and attracting women online for free is to create a second Facebook account.

I'm not advising you to try this with your main Facebook account as it can be suspended.

And I'm not saying that what you are going to try here is not risky, I've had many Facebook accounts suspended because of the activities I did!

These activities are not harmful to other people, but they are against the rules of Facebook.

When setting up this new Facebook account, be as sincere as possible, don't try to invent new names and new identities for yourself, simply tell the truth and try to look as authentic as possible, remember that there are many perverts and idiots on the internet who want to play on women and use and abuse them!

• The third step is to take great pictures.

If you don't have fantastic pictures, then your chances of meeting women online are going to be highly limited.

Women are going to trust you when they see you, and if you upload only one or two pictures, women are not going to feel comfortable talking to you and having fun and open conversations with you.

When taking your pictures, don't try to look macho or very strange, for example: drinking at clubs or partying, try to have really nice and "crazy" pictures, pictures where you are having fun and where you are in social situations, with your friends for example or playing with your dog.

It’s these kinds of pictures that women like the most; they are going to tell and million positive things about you such as: you are a sociable guy, you have a great life, you are fun to be around etc.

After taking these pictures, you should definitely use a websites like http://www.ratingmylooks.com or http://www.rankmyphotos.com/ to choose the best pictures to display on your account.

• The fourth step is to make your Facebook account represents who you are.

By this, I simply mean that your Facebook account should be alive and reflects fun activities that you are doing and fun people that you know.

The less people you are going to have in your Facebook account, the more it will look fake and suspicious!

That’s why you need to add a lot of friends and people, have a lot of sharing and also a lot of fun images and fun things that you are doing.

In fact, the second Facebook account needs to become your top priority account.

• The fifth step to meeting women online for free is to simply start asking them.

What I mean by asking them here is that you should invite them to become your friends.

Here is the thing you need to understand about Facebook policy:

The more people you are going to invite, the more you are going to be at risk of getting your account suspended!

Facebook is very protective of its users, that’s why you must only invite two to three people a day, and if you receive a warning from Facebook spam system, then you should relax and wait for things to calm down.

Usually, you will not face any troubles if you stick to inviting two to three people a day.

• The final step to meeting women online is to start having great fun with them.

Simply start enjoying talking to these women and making them laugh, one of the best things you can do is to not give too much importance to the outcome of your conversations, just talk to these women and connect with them in order to have fun.

And this is how you meet women online for free, Facebook is a great service, and if you are patient enough, you are going to have great success.

The seven greatest perfumes that attract women

I'm going to present you seven great perfumes that attract women to men all the time, these perfumes are not only very affordable, but they are unknown to most guys.

Applying great perfume is one of the easiest things you can do to attract women, in fact, I cannot think of a simpler technique to make women like you when they come close to you.

But, there are many perfumes and brands in shops and it’s difficult to choose the best one because of all the advertisements.

These perfumes you are going to read about today are not only guaranteed to attract women, they are also very pleasant to smell and wear all day long.

I didn't find them by myself! They were recommended to me by many women I know and I've gotten hundreds of compliments from a lot of women at work and social gatherings.

They are proven to work!

• The first amazing perfume to attract women is Hugo Boss - Hugo.

With its sweet and spicy aroma, Hugo is one of the yummiest perfumes for men.

The price is convenient and a small bottle will last you for ages!

I usually spray two sprays on my neck and it will last me for the whole day. In the past, I used to use Cool Water, it’s a fantastic perfume for men too, but I tend to not like the fact that most guys already know about it.

This is the best thing I really like about Hugo, only the cool guys use it!

• The second great perfume to attract women is Burberry Brit.

I didn't know about this perfume until it was mentioned to me by a reader of my previous blog, he told me about all the great comments he was getting from women and that this perfume was probably the least expensive and the most attractive.

When I tried it, I couldn't believe the quality of the aromas, you have to try it!

What you are certainly going to like about Burberry Brit is the fact that it’s not an overwhelming perfume.

Most perfumes for men tend to have strong and violent bursts of fragrances when you first apply them, they are overpowering and flashy!

This is not the case with Burberry Brit, it simply smells sexy and attractive!

This scent is masculine, clean and a bit rough.

It’s what women like and feel most attracted to when it comes to men's perfumes.

• The third perfume to attract women is Escape by Calvin Klein.

This is probably one of the greatest perfumes for men, wearing it with nice clothes is like having a flashy sign above your head blinking: "I'm sexy!"

The smell is absolutely magnetic to the ladies, last time I put it on, a woman in the bus nearly ate me with her eyes!

She couldn't look away and I was even embarrassed a little!

But don't worry, if you put two sprays or less, you would simply smell magnificent and attractive.

The best thing I like about this cologne is that it’s completely unknown to most guys, which is great because when women smell it on you, they cannot figure out what it is and it leaves them puzzled and wanting to know more about you.

• The fourth perfume is Bvlgari Aqua.

The smell is salty and will remind you of the beach, which is why most women love it; it reminds them of happy memories and happy events at the beach.

Believe me, this is very important in a great perfume, it must bring great feelings to women, then they are going to associate those positive feelings with you.

This can sound very and unrealistic, but it’s true.

You just can't go wrong by choosing Bvlgari Aqua, and women will prove this to you.

It was a woman who told me to get it; she was so impressed by it that she bought it for her boyfriend on many occasions.

It’s strange, but women cannot resist its smell, they have to either look at you or compliment you.

• The fifth perfume is USHER For Men.

Although I'm not a big fan of the singer Usher, I think his signature perfume for men is one of the best that you can get.

The smell tends to be a little weak but if you spray more than two sprays, it will come out nice and strong.

This perfume for men will attract a lot of eyes on you, women will come from nowhere and compliment you or just keep looking at you, desiring.

The one thing I really dislike about this cologne is that most guys who wear it are teenagers and young men, I myself am quite young, I'm thirty years old, but I think that this perfume is for teenagers and twentysomething men.

• The sixth perfume that attracts women is ETERNITY by Calvin Klein.

You will not believe me when I tell you that this perfume for men has been selling since the eighties!

It’s a bestseller, many men and women will tell you that this is simply the best perfume for men.

The scents are harmoniously balanced and you simply cannot get enough of it.

My girlfriend is always spraying some on her clothes, she tells me that she likes my smell.

I don't use it that much, but when I do, I tend to notice that many women start looking and paying more attention to me.

This is definitely a great cologne to have.

• The seventh perfume that attracts women is Acqua Di Gio.

This is a fantastic cologne for men, the smell is wonderful and very aromatic, it’s also extremely attractive to women, however, a billion guys out there are using it every day!!

Whenever I go, especially to clubs, I tend to smell it, most guys think that they are putting a very attractive perfume, but the truth is that most women know about it and are already thinking that if you wear it, you are either a loser or a player!

So, this perfume is extremely attractive and wonderfully smelling, but the guys wearing it all the time are making it look cheap and unworthy.

These are the greatest perfumes that attract women all the time, if you know other ones, share them in a comment.

Five essential tips on how to attract women easily

This post will provide you with the most essential tips on how to attract women easily, I guarantee you that if you apply these tips, you will have success with women!

I'm not telling you this to give you false hopes, these tips are the ones I've followed in order to have success with women in my life and I know from fact that they work because I’ve shared them with hundreds of guys and all of them confirmed that they are amazing and very effective at attracting women.

I'm going to give you these tips gradually, from internal to external.

• The first essential tip on how to attract women easily is love yourself.

You may think that this tip is useless and that it’s a waste of time to go on reading this post, but the reality is that this tip is the most essential one to attracting women!

I'm sure that you've already tried to approach a woman or talking to her but she rejected you!

Do you know why? It’s because women have got a sixth sense when it comes to men's psychology!

I too was very surprised when I heard about this five years ago, I thought to myself that this is impossible , however after trying this tip, I started having huge successes with women and I can assure you that it will work with every man, no matter how attractive or unattractive he is.

By loving yourself, I mean that you should respect yourself and view yourself as the best possible guy for women.

To achieve this, you need to start caring about yourself, go to places you enjoy, do things you like, spoil yourself, spend time with great and positive people and for god’s sake stop talking badly to yourself!

I did the same in the past and only got depression and low self-esteem! From now on, whenever you make a mistake or whenever you are thinking poorly about yourself, stop immediately and start thinking of the things you like about yourself, why you are a great guy, why you are such an attractive guy and why women should not only like you but love you and consider you the best for them.

Don't do this orally, get yourself a journal and start writing every single day about how awesome you are and how lucky a woman will be when she meets you.

Trust me, this is absolutely the most essential tip on how to attract women, don't neglect it and start respecting yourself and valuing yourself from now on, women will like the outcome.

• The second essential tip to attract women is to start paying attention to your grooming.

It’s the number one mistake hundreds of guys do every day, they think that because they are not going to meet women in a particular day, they don't have to care about their looks!

Wrong!

Women are testing you all the time! Women are watching you! And women are paying attention to your every detail and moves!

When you wake up, the first thing you have to do is look for imperfections in your looks, long hairs in your nose, yellowish teeth, smelly armpits, bad looking eyebrows, dirty nails, dirty ears etc.

These little details are crucial when women are judging you and when they are selecting you, these little details are either going to make you a perfect catch or a guy to stay away from!

From now on, when you wake up, take good care of yourself and think of yourself as the most valuable thing in the universe.

• The third tip to attract women easily is looking good.

Most guys tend to think that women are not interested in looks and are only interested in personality, they are completely wrong!

When I decided to learn how to date and how to be successful with women, I started asking hundreds of women about the things they find most attractive in guys, and trust me, when these women were done talking about personality, the second thing they talked about was good looks.

You won't believe this, but women find guys who buy designer clothes and designer shoes very attractive!

I know, this sounds very strange, but to women have an eye when it comes to clothing and wearing nice things, and they will notice a guy who is wearing designer clothes and great shoes from hundreds of men!

And it’s not that big of a deal to getting designer clothes and items, you can find them really cheaply at eBay.com.

Trust me, women won’t notice.

• The fourth tip to attract women easily is to have the right body language.

Women are attracted to confident guys.

This is a fact; and here is a question for you: how do women distinguish between a confident and a less confident guy?

Through body language!

No matter how much confidence you have got, it will not matter if you can't project it using the right body language.

Here are some body language features that you should demonstrate in order to look very confident and attractive:

1. Walk tall, don't look at the ground or at the ceiling, simply walk as if you are words $3 billion!


2. Look them in the eyes, eye contact is probably the number one body language feature women will look for in confident men, women have told me over and over that a man who will look them right in the eyes will become a thousand times more attractive than the rest of the guys.


3. Speak slowly, when you are nervous, you will start speaking rapidly and even make mistakes, this is a huge sign of low self-confidence. By speaking slowly, you are conveying to women that no matter what happen, you are in control. This can be very attractive.


4. Don't smile a lot, in chimpanzee groups, the males that are low statues will always look down and seek the approval of the higher status males and females. We humans do the same with our smiles, we tend to smile and laugh at the jokes of higher statues males and females, and as with all superior in statues people, they will ignore lower status people. When you avoid laughing at their jokes and smiling when they are present, you are simply conveying to them that you are a higher status male too.

• And the fifth tip on attracting women is to become fearless.

With attraction, it’s all about the numbers.

At first, when I was learning how to become successful with women, I tried to focus on only one woman; this made me fail every single time.

But as I progressed in my learning and experience, I began to understand that the more choices I had, the more women are going to start being attracted to me.

By this I mean that you should never focus on one woman, always have variety in your life and always have other choices.

It’s okay to be rejected by women, and trust me it will happen to you, will be rejected by women all the time, but in the end of the day it’s always a numbers game, the more women you are going to approach, the more you will be rejected and also the more you will have success.

When you start approaching at least ten women a week, you will soon become fearless and women are going to sense it in you.

And believe me, women feel huge sexual and psychological attraction to fearless guys.

These five tips on how to attract women easily are the most effective and the easiest to apply in your life, just start using them every day and you will have massive success soon.