Thursday, August 29, 2013

The best flirty questions to ask a girl over text

Why use text messaging with girls?

It’s because it’s one of the most efficient and rapid ways to make them interested and like you!

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

How to seduce women with words

Whenever you want to seduce a woman with words, you need to be extremely careful about only using the right combinations and the right expressions, or she is going to be uncomfortable around you and even try to avoid you!

Today, I'm going to show you a step-by-step guide so that you can learn how to seduce women with words, this will not only work at attracting women to you, it will also make these women interested in learning more about you and they will start to trust you, which is a great thing when trying to attract women.

The first step in learning how to seduce women with words is to learn that words are not essential!

Believe it or not, most results are going to happen by your body language and not your words, in fact, our body language and voice tone constituent more than 97% of our communication!

That’s why you need to care about your body language more than words in order to seduce women.

And that’s why you need to apply these body language tips whenever you are trying to seduce women with words:

  1. Don’t laugh a lot

  2. Don’t smile first

  3. Close your mouth as much as possible

  4. Look women the right in the eyes when talking to them

  5. Smile at women when they are smiling back at you

  6. Touch them on their hands and on their shoulders when you like something they have just said

  7. Turn your torso away from them when you don't like things they have said to you, it will "punish" them a little and they will not do it again!


These body language techniques are very helpful for helping you not only seduce women, but also come out as the best and most self-confident guy around.

Let's talk now about the first tip in order to seduce women using only words: always say your words the right way.

By the right way, I mean that there is a wrong way to saying things, for example, if your voice is not deep enough and you speak loudly and unclearly, then you should calm down a little and only say things after repeating them to yourself.

This is a very difficult technique but it’s extremely helpful because it will make women enjoy your company and whatever words that come from your mouth are going to sound exceptionally interesting.

The second tip is to avoid romantic words as much as possible.

Although you may think that romantic words are going to seduce women, they are not, the best things that will seduce women are things that are related to confidence and also things that are going to interest these women.

This means that if you do not interest women, you are simply not going to seduce them no matter what words and expressions you will use!

The third tip to seduce women is to always ask them about themselves.

By making women talk about themselves, they are going to help themselves be seduced by you!

This is one of the most guarded secrets for seducing women, most guys who know about this will never tell you because it’s remarkably useful and effective.

So, whenever you are talking to a woman and you would like to seduce her by just using words, simply shut up a little and let her do the talking, keep asking her about herself and things she really like doing, and soon she will flood you with information and practical things about her that you need to consider when seducing her in the future.

I guarantee you that this is one of the most effective techniques to seducing women with words, the less you speak and talk the better for you.

The fourth tip is to be fun.

Most women are not going to be seduced by your words even if you are the most sensual or the most seductive man in the word if you are not fun!

It’s because women are bored all the time, and when they are meeting guys, the first thing that they will want from them is to have a great time, if you do not achieve this, no matter how many words you said or how romantic you are, you are always going to have troubles at seducing them.

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

The easiest way to meet attractive women online

Meeting attractive women online is probably one of the easiest techniques you can use for getting dates and finding the love of your life without suffering from approach anxiety and rejections, it’s not that difficult and it’s extremely simple, however, most guys are going to frustrate themselves and try different methods that are useless at meeting women online!

One of the best things I've done in my life is learn how to meet very attractive women online; this is what I'm going to share with you, a great way to meet women online rapidly and easily.

However, before I began telling you about this, you need to make your mind! Because there are two philosophies you can apply to achieve this result:

The first one is about paying no money, it will require getting a Facebook account and making it extremely active and filled with great pictures of you and interactions with your friends, however, although this step is extremely beneficial and will yield amazing results, it’s highly time-consuming and you are certainly going to get a lot of warnings from the Facebook system because you may post too many friendship requests!

So, I highly recommend that you set up a Facebook account and start using it, fill it with interactions, increase your social engagements with other people, then start inviting interesting women and starting conversations with them, and then invite their friends etc.

This is a great time investment, but if you are looking for a quick way to meet women online, you need to apply the second philosophy:

Paying!

To me, this is the simplest and easiest way to use to meet beautiful and "real" women online because unlike what most men think, it’s not only going to cost you a lot of money, just thirty dollars a month, and it’s also extremely simple and you are not going to risk getting suspended or having troubles with your account!

The two most important services I'm going to recommend to you for meeting women are much.com and eHarmony.com.

Of course, there are dozens of other great online dating websites but these are the ones I've used in the past and that gave me the most positive results.

You need first to set up your profile in order to look attractive and appealing to women.

The most important thing you need to do here is get some amazing pictures.

If you do not have fantastic pictures, then, do yourself a favor and ask a friend to take pictures of you while you are having fun and enjoying yourself.

Trust me, women are experts at reading body language, they will know whether you are sincere or not and they are going to detect almost immediately whether you are a great person to spend time with or not.

Post a minimum of five pictures and a maximum of eleven, it’s because if you post too many pictures, women are going to perceive you as desperate and needy, however, if you post less than four, women will not be able to make up their minds!

The next step is to add an attractive description to your profile.

In this description, you need to tell women about your criteria and the things you really like to have in your future girlfriend, you need to be as clear as possible and you need also to give them reasons to call you, for example if you are fun and an entertainer, you should mention it, you should also mention that your friends enjoy spending time with you etc.

In other words, you have to sell yourself to these women and convince them that you are a great catch.

Now, let's discuss one of the most important steps and ways to meeting women online: posting as many e-mails as possible.

This is very important because if you wait for women to contact you and send you e-mails, you are going to be disappointed because your ad is going to be mixed with thousands of other ads, that’s why you need to be proactive and e-mail the women you want to meet them.

This is the best way to meet women online, if you have questions or comments, post them in the form below.

Sunday, August 25, 2013

The best conversation starters for shy people

Before I begun meeting women successfully, I was a very shy guy, I had horrible experiences meeting women and in fact, I couldn't even talk to people in the street, left alone talk to women, however, after starting to focus on my confidence and my self-esteem, I began finding very easy and helpful ways to not only talk to stranger people, but also start conversations with very attractive women very easily.

I'm going to share with you the best conversation starters you can use if you are a shy person, these are not always going to require you talking and doing all the work, however, they are going to require some work on your part and applying the techniques described here precisely.

The first conversation starter for shy people is "where is...?"

This is the very first line I've started using with women and it works.

I've used it with women when I was very shy, and still use it from time to time, I learned it from a friend who was extremely shy as well, he would simply gather the courage to go ask beautiful women about obvious places, for example, we were once in the city center when he saw a very beautiful woman, he went to her and asked her "where is the nearest movie theater?"

He looked very nice and extremely neat, he told me that for women to be interested in you, you have to be interesting, you have to dress nicely and you have to look very good.

When he asked this question, the woman simply looked at him, smiled and told him where to head, he then told her that he was feeling very shy and he just wanted come talk to her!

I can't understand why, but women really like shy guys!

It may be because women hate players and think that shy guys are "pure" and friendly to hang out with.

Trust me, even now, when I'm not shy anymore, I still use this conversation starter, because it works and it will make women stop and talk to me very easily.

The second conversation starter for shy people is a smile.

If you are shy person, the best thing you can do is to start training your brain and body language to smiling, the more you smile at women and at people in general, the more sociable you are going to become and the more people are going to feel attracted to you.

Who wouldn't like a person who smiles genuinely and warmly!?

No one, we are all wired naturally to like people who smile and we all consider them safe, in fact, when women are attracted to guys, they are going to smile at them, and by smiling at women, even if you are shy, you are going to make yourself look attractive and friendly.

This means that when you approach them, you are not going to be rejected.

The third opening line is "hi, my name’s …, what’s your name?"

I know that this is probably the oldest conversation starter in the world, but it still works and if you approach women with a very open and warm smile, and especially if you look very nice and neat, they are going to smile back at you and talk to you for a little.

Even if women are not interested in you, they are going to smile back and say something like sorry or I'm busy now etc.

These are the perfect conversation starters shy people can use, if you know other ones, please share them in a comment, I really love to hear more and especially to try more.

Friday, August 23, 2013

Dirty questions to ask girls

Although I've written "dirty questions to ask girls", these are not really very dirty and in fact are totally fine to ask girls you know, however, they contain insinuations and hidden meanings in them which make them dirty if the girl is intelligent enough to understand them.

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Cooking to impress a woman

One of the most used techniques for seducing women is cooking, a lot of guys are going to think that by cooking to them, women are going to feel attracted and even sexually aroused!

I once saw an ad on TV where a man was cooking to a woman a perfect dinner, then the woman simply jumped on him and started kissing him passionately!

So, is cooking going to impress a woman or not!?

The answer is yes and no, if you do the right steps, cooking is truly impressive to women, but if you don't know what you are doing, you are simply going to appear as a lame and unattractive person!

The first thing you have to learn about impressing women with cooking is that they are not interested in food!

This is the most important thing you have to remember from this post, it’s that women are not going to care about whether you cook for them a great meal or a lousy sandwich, they are simply interested in the interaction and fun.

Women are bored all the time, they want to have fun and they want to enjoy themselves when they are with you, that’s why the most important thing you need to understand here is that if you are not a funny and amusing person, you are simply going to have a bad evening with the woman, and even if you cook the perfect me, she will not be impressed by it a lot!

The important rule here is to entertain the woman.


The second rule is to focus on listening rather than cooking!

When you are with a woman that you really want to impress, the best thing is to not focus only on cooking for her, but to listen to her and let her speak her mind.

Let me give you a really important piece of information:

The more a woman talks to you, the more she is going to like you!


It took me more than five years to know this amazing piece of information, because the first times, I simply flooded women with information, practical things about my life, pickup lines and stupid stories, trust me, they have never worked!

I started having success by chance, one evening, I was too tired to try anything and I started listing to a woman, she loved and enjoyed it a lot!

And if you make a woman laugh while listening to her, you will become the number one man in her life.

But I don't mean that you should listen to everything she will tell you, if you do so, you will become her "girlfriend"!

What you must do is listen carefully to what she says and be critical from time to time, don't let her talk about her previous boyfriends or problems, simply smile and tell her to shut up and talk about something else, she can tell such details to her girlfriend, but not to you.

The third rule is participation.

Whenever you want to impress women by cooking for them, you need to make them participate!

This is extremely important because if you are cooking her a nice meal while she is just sitting and waiting for you to "serve her", then you are not going to look attractive and manly, you will simply become a waiter who will give her with a free meal.

When I want to cook to a woman, I will invite her to my house and then I will give her an apron and some instructions and tasks to do, I would even hold the apron in my hand and "help her" wear it!

Women love it when guys take the lead and order them, however, you must be very gentle and tease her.

The fourth rule to impress a woman when cooking for her is to feed her.

I don't want you to act like a pervert, but what I really want you to do is to "feed her" when she is eating with you.

I enjoy cutting pieces of meat or chicken and then simply use my fork and give her a taste. For example, you can cut a piece of meat and taste it, then cut her another piece and tell her that she will enjoy it, it’s very sexual, sensual and will create a deep bond with the woman.

I also really enjoy pouring wine to women, they go berserk!

The next and probably the most important rule is to make her do the dishes!

What will most guys do when they are done eating?

They will simply try to kiss the woman or at least flirt with her!

This is such a lame thing to do because most women are already expecting you to do it and they will not be easy targets because they have objections about being and looking like every other girl!

What you need to do is to get up, start collecting the dishes and then ask her to come with you, give her some dishes to clean, then give her an apron and start doing the dishes together, don't ask her to help you, just look at her and tell her "what are you waiting for?", then hand her other dishes to wash!

Meanwhile, you can start teasing her by criticizing her dishwashing techniques, believe me, women go crazy for such moments and you can "steal" a kiss from her when she is smiling!

These are the most important rules to understand and apply when cooking to impress a woman, believe me, when you apply them; she is going to be genuinely impressed.

Monday, August 19, 2013

How to meet local women online

There are many ways you can meet local women online, however, most of these are going to require you spending a lot of hours online and frustrating yourself over some things you will not understand!

By this, I mean the technical side of online dating and the things you need to have in order to find and have success with local women on the internet.

I'm going to lay down in this post a step-by-step guide in order to help you meet beautiful local women online very quickly and cheaply.

The first thing I would like to talk about in is that if you want to succeed at online dating, you have two options, either you pay and get very quick and positive results or you don't pay and wait for at least 2 to 3 months to start having great results with women online.

If I were you, I would simply pay and stop wasting time!

It’s because the free solution to meeting local women online requires Facebook and setting up an "extraordinary" profile that will demand lots of hours of work and lots of frustration, and you may even get your account suspended for inviting too many women!

I've tried to use Facebook for meeting local women online, and the thing I can tell you is that it works, but it’s going to require a lot of hours and a lot of content, friends, liking, loling, and defeats to succeed.

Now, my favorite solution is to use a professional and affordable online dating websites.

I live in the Netherlands, and one of the best websites to use for online dating here is http://www.lexa.nl/ and http://www.parship.nl/.

You need to look carefully for online dating websites that are designed and adapted to your area, for example, if you live in the US, you can use much.com or eHarmony.com, they are the leaders and they are also extremely rich in profiles.

After paying and subscribing, you should start with the second step, which is setting up your profile.

You need to first of all take some great pictures of you, pictures where you are happy, and feeling great about yourself and your future.

I know that this is going to sound extremely lame, but it’s a must-do step in order to increase your chances with women, it’s because women are extremely sensitive and "experts" at reading body language, and if you only post 2 lonely and lame pictures, you will have absolutely zero chances with meeting gorgeous local women!

The third step is looking for local women in your area to meet.

This is absolutely the most simple and easiest way, just write down in your search criteria, the name of your city or town and how many miles you are able to travel in order to meet dates.

It’s this easy and it’s really very simple.

However, the most important step to meet the local women online isn't about finding them, it’s talking to them and knowing how to deal with them.

The first major step is to always have a great personality and a fun attitude towards meeting new people, not just women.

You need to reply to as many profiles as possible and you need to also lower your expectations a little, I simply mean that you must first of all focus on the number of profiles you send e-mails to, and then simply start selecting the ones you really like and would like to meet.

The next step is to avoid staying in the internet!

This happened to me when I was first trying to meet women online, I would spend many hours and sleepless nights talking and chatting with women without ever meeting them, after some few months, I found myself alone and depressed, however, when I started focusing on getting them out of the cyberspace as soon as possible, my success rate went to the roof!

If she doesn't want to meet you in real, simply move on!

Just focus on women who are available and who want to meet a really guy, avoid the ones who are online junkies.

This is how you can meet local women online.

Friday, August 16, 2013

How to talk dirty to women

I'm sure that most guys want to learn how to talk dirty to women, but the reality is that what you hear on TV and on the Internet about guys talking dirty to women is completely false and the truth is that women are going to hate you if you talk to them "obviously" in such a way, however, if you know the right way to talking dirty to women, you are not only going to come out as highly attractive, but you are going to become extremely desirable to them.

In fact, I will talk dirty to women from the third or fourth date; I do not wait, it’s because there is a huge reason for talking dirty to women!

It’s the fact that if you do not become very sexual with women very early, they are going to put you in the friend zone!

I know that this is going to look strange to you, but why are women meeting guys!?

It’s because they are interested sexually in them and if you do not act sexual, women are simply going to run away from you and are going to look for a much more sexual guy.

So, talking dirty to women is the best thing for you in order to make them highly sexual and attracted to you.

The first tip on how to talk dirty to women is to always insinuate.

The worst thing you can do is say a dirty word directly!

Especially when you are first knowing each other’s, it may work with some women, but the majority of women are "too prude" to talk dirty to you from the very beginning, that’s why they are going to hate and think that you are a pervert you when you do it.

An amazing way is to simply make them laugh and have fun with you on the first dates, then when you feel that a woman is comfortable around you, you can start talking dirty to her, however, here, in this stage, I don't mean that you need to say dirty words to her, just insinuate.

For example, if she is talking about something and she says the word “bed", for example, simply look surprised and astonished and asked her what she meant!

Tell her that you are a very sensitive being and that you do not want any dirty language in your conversation, she will laugh at this and you are going to appear highly confident and self-assured.

The second tip on talking dirty to women is to always have fun.

I know that you may have seen in some movies the main character saying dirty word to a woman while looking very serious and extremely severe, but this is never going to work, if you would like to say dirty words to a woman, you need to make her laugh at first and you need to get her in a receptive mood.

Now, imagine this, you are with a woman you've just met some two days ago and suddenly, you start saying dirty words to her!

She will simply run away from you or called the police, however if you start by making her laugh and insinuating that she is a dirty minded girl, she is going to feel much more comfortable around you when you start talking dirty to her and she is going to like you more.

The third tip is to use texting.

A lot of my dirty conversations do not happen on the telephone or verbally, I would simply send dirty texts to women, in these, I will insinuate that I really desire them and want them sexually, and then I will start having fun with them while slipping a few dirty words sometimes.

The next tip is to be secretive.

All women simply hate it when you talk dirty to them in public, even if no one is hearing what you are saying, they feel frightened and uncomfortable!

That’s why you have to talk to them only when you are alone, or a better technique is to whisper in their ears, it’s exceptionally sensual and it’s going to arouse them a lot while creating a confident feeling about you.

And this is how to talk dirty to women, if you have other advice or techniques, please post them below.

5 simple first date conversation starters

One of the most important moments in your dating life is your first dates, you have to be extremely calm, self-confident, self-assured and fun to be attractive, that’s why you need to start using these first date conversation starters whenever you are feeling hesitant and less confident.

The first conversation starter is an innocent question.

Although I don't like the word innocent here, this is what women are going to perceive when you ask them the following questions.

Women are simply going to respond calmly and nicely to you, most importantly, they are going to see that you are not a scary and frightening guy after all, they are going to trust you more and open up to you.

So, there are different questions you can ask women on your first dates that are going to be great conversation starters, but most tend to be used a lot by men and if you ask women such questions, you are simply going to be rehearsing what other men have probably already said to her!

The questions I'm going to share with you are extremely useful and most importantly, unique:

The first question is: "are you originally from here?"

Of course, you are not interested in her life story and what has brought her here, but this with make the woman talk about her past and why she is living here, and it will also give you hints about things to do next, for example, if you know the place very well and the woman is new, you can always take her to some places you think are cool, trust me, women love men guiding them.

The second question is: "what are your hobbies?"

Most guys are going to ask this question to women, but they are going to do it differently, they are going to ask the woman about things she loves to do, but, when you are asking her about her hobbies, she is going to answer you directly which is going to give you more materials to talk about and things to say.

The third question is: "what is your favorite color?"

This may sound like a stupid question, but women are truly interested in knowing about colors and styles, they are going to talk for a long time about things they love about a different color and the best thing you can do is to keep asking them about the reasons why they like such and such color or style.

The thing here is to get the woman to talk as much as possible and to get her to share with you, the more she talks about herself to you, the more "ammo" you are going to have to use later on when trying to seduce her.

The fourth question is "what is your astrological sign?"

Whatever her answer, ask her "do you really believe in astrology?", even if you don't believe in this, just get her to talk about her feelings and emotions, then ask her whether she has ever had something happen to her that was written in her astrological sign.

Trust me, most women are going to say "yes" and they are going to keep telling you about it.

These are the questions I really like asking women on first dates, they are fantastic conversation starters and they are going to get the woman in a very talkative mood.

The next first date conversation starter is: "you feel tense?"

This is a very weird question, but when you ask a woman to reveal her feelings about meeting you this way, she is likely to tell you "yes", this is absolutely very revealing because women are going to feel anxious and tense the first time they are going to meet you, when you ask them about it, they are going to confess their feelings and are going to feel less tense and less worried.

You are also going to look and feel like a great guy.

If you have more first date conversation starters, please share them in a comment.

Thursday, August 15, 2013

The best body language technique to attract women

In this website, I've tried to share with you many essential and very valuable body language techniques to attract beautiful women, they are all very successful and extremely beneficial for creating and maintaining attraction with the woman you like very quickly, but the trick I'm going to share with you today is the ultimate body language technique in my opinion, it’s a bit difficult to do, but it will have great effects on women.

The best body language technique for attracting women in my opinion is:

Silence and deep eye contact


Look, I'm not trying to convince you of something that doesn't exist, I have used this trick for more than a hundred times with women and it’s simply the best body language technique I can think of, when you are with a woman, simply close your mouth, have a little smile, without showing your teeth, and keep looking at her while she is talking to you.

The next step is to maintain eye contact with her while looking at her facial features such as her eyebrows, ears, neck etc. but you will also need to be sexually active, this means that you need to desire the woman and wish for her to be yours!

I'm sure that this is going to look like a pervert technique, but one thing most weak guys tend to do is deny their sexuality and sexual desire, they think that showing their desires and needs to women is a bad thing and they will hate them for it!

Well, this is not the truth, women are going to love you more when they know that you are truthful about your sexual desires and you are not hypocrite, meaning that you will pretend as if you want to be their friends when in fact you are interested in them sexually!

The more you express with your body language and sometimes verbally your sexual desires to her, the more she is going to respect you and think that you are true to yourself.

Trust me, when you apply the body language technique that you have just learned with a woman that you really like, your body is going to do all the talking and she is going to feel great about you, in fact, if she doesn't like you, she will simply stop talking to you, however if she is interested, she will want you to take the next move.

This is the best body language technique to attract women, if you know other signs and techniques, please share them in a comment.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

The ultimate guide on reading women's body language

There are many books and guides on reading women's body language, personally, I have read hundreds of them, especially articles and reports on the internet, and most of them are pretty okay, they are going to show you the most known tricks and tips to correctly read and interpret obvious body language expressions, but after reading such a high number of resources, I can only recommend one for you.

It’s called: The definitive book of body language by Barbara Pease and Allan Pease, and in my opinion it’s the best book for learning how to read women's body language.

I have to warn you though that most of the information you are going to learn are not focused on women, they are focused on a variety of applications, like business and personal relations, but you can always read different articles in this website and use the book as a guide.

This amazing book is not only beneficial for learning about body language; it’s also a great investment in your professional life.

For example, in my job, which is negotiation and buying products for a large manufacturer, this book has helped me tremendously acquire new clients and new accounts, I can now simply have a phone conversation with a customer and know exactly what he or she wants and whether I'm heading to the right direction or not, just by listening and analyzing the tone of voice.

This is a fantastic investment that you have to make; otherwise you are not very serious about meeting and attracting women.

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Funny questions to ask a girl

In your interactions with girls, you can ask them thousands of questions, but the ones that are going to stay in their minds for a very long time are the ones that are going to make them attracted to you, in other words, the funniest and strangest questions!

Monday, August 12, 2013

How to flirt using body language

I feel really surprised when guys ask me about the best ways to flirt using body language! It’s because you cannot flirt with a woman without using your body language!

This is the most important thing to understand about flirting, it’s the fact that you will never flirt with a woman using only words, your body language is extremely important and you are going to use it a lot, in fact, you are going to use your body language 97% of the time you are flirting with a woman and only use words 3%!

Let's start with the first body language expression to use for flirting with women: your eye contact.

I cannot emphasize on this enough, it’s the most important expression for flirting with women and the more you master and use it, the more you are going to have success with the ladies.

The first way to flirt with a woman using eye contact is to look at her directly.

Even though you are going to look directly at her, it’s going to make her feel attracted to you , if you are using your eyes the right way.

So, when you are talking to a woman and trying to flirt with her, lean a little and keep looking firmly right into her eyes, while having a nice and attractive smile, stop talking and let her look right into your eyes too, then she is simply going to smile and look down or hit you gently!

This means that she has understood what you are trying to communicate with her and is flirting back with you.

The second body language to use when flirting with women is smiling.

Whenever you are smiling to another person, you are either showing dominance, that you have been dominated by this person, or acceptance!

I know that you are going to feel horrible about smiles now because I've told you their real meaning, but you need to be able to use this information to your own benefits whenever you are with women.

This means that if you are smiling too much when flirting with her, you are simply not being dominant enough and she is not going to like it a lot because to attract her, you have to become dominant.

In order to achieve dominance with your smiles while flirting with women, simply wait a little before smiling.

This will look like a strange technique, but it’s going to make women feel comfortable with you while knowing that you are a dominant and a powerful person.

And believe me, women enjoy dominance and power in men.

The third body language technique to flirt with women is touching.

If you are not touching a woman when you are flirting with her, you are simply going to expose yourself to the dark side of the friend zone!


Yes, the dreaded friend zone!

You are going to fall into it whenever you are not sexual and sensual enough with women, if you do not escalate with them rapidly, you are not going to succeed with them and you are simply going to become their "best" friend.

I was once talking to a female friend of mine and I told her about a guy friend who got stuck in the friend zone with his girlfriend, when I asked her for advice, she simply told me:

"He needs to F her soon!"


I will never forget these words because they are so true.

If you are flirting with a woman, the most important thing you need to focus on is touching her, I don't really care about the amount of touching, what I really care about is the how.

Don't touch women in their private areas when flirting with them, this is not the time to do it, simply touch them on the hand, hair, elbow clothes etc. gently but a little firmly.

One thing I really enjoy is whenever I'm flirting with a woman I really like, I would hold her hand a little and then let's go of it, I may even start playing with her hair or clothes, this is simply a great way to make her understand that you want to be her lover not her friend!!

Sunday, August 11, 2013

How to meet beautiful local women

There are many ways to meet gorgeous local women, but the ones I'm going to share with you are the easiest to apply.

The first way to meet beautiful local women is to always be ready.

One thing I really hate about a lot of guys is the fact that they are only going to groom and care for appearance once they are going to meet women!

This is totally wrong and it’s going to drive all the chances away from them!

What you need to do is always care about your looks and yourself and always act and look as if you are about to meet exceptionally beautiful women once you leave your house.

It’s because one of the best places you can meet women is the street, that’s why you need to always be ready!

To me, this is one of the most important characteristic to have in order to have to be successful at meeting women, especially local ones, and the moment you stop caring about yourself, women will not care about you!

And no matter how "unattractive" you "think" you are, you will find a woman who is going to like you and accept you for who you are once you start grooming and wearing nice things.

The second step to meet beautiful local women is to be where they are!

This is probably the most important advice to meeting women; it’s exposing yourself to them.

Believe it or not, beautiful women are also exposing themselves to single guys by going to malls, department stores, local supermarkets, clubs and bars etc.

By going to these places too, you are simply going to increase your chances of meeting them.

However, you need to be aware that going there alone is going to be a little difficult, especially in the beginning, that’s why I highly recommend that you find a friend to accompany you and find a good place where you can feel comfortable to hang for a long time, in my case, there is a bar down the street where I live that I really love spending evenings in, this bar is going to be packed with gorgeous and single local women that I can meet and talk to.

You need to have the same mentality, you need to choose the place you will feel most comfortable in, a place where you are going to know the waiters and the manager, a place where the food is great and where people are extremely friendly to you.

No need to worry about bouncers once they know who you are, but if you are going to a new bar or club every single night, you are simply going to waste your time and a lot of money!

The third step to meeting beautiful local women is to know what to say!

This is the most important step in my opinion because if you do not know what to say and how to say it, you are not going to have success with them!

The most important thing to understand here is that what you are going to say is not really important!


I know that this is going to sound confusing, but your body language is going to do much of the talking for you, and if you do not know the right body language features, you are going to waste a lot of efforts and energy.

With body language, you need to establish good report and good eye contact with women, just look them right in the eyes and smile, trust me, your body knows what to do and it will guide you to be not only attractive but also highly confident around women.

The final step is getting their phone numbers.

If you do not get their numbers, you will have no dates!

I'm going to share with you a very simple technique that’s guaranteed to work most of the time, just start talking to a beautiful woman, introduce yourself and ask her about the place and whether she comes often or not, then simply hand her your mobile phone and ask her to type her phone number.

Trust me, this is an extremely easy way to get phone numbers very quickly and if she refuses, you can always ask other women, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

This is how you can meet local and beautiful women rapidly and easily.

Friday, August 9, 2013

How to dress to impress women

One of the best ways you can impress women is through dressing; you can be the lamest and most physically unattractive guy and still make women go crazy for you if you know how to dress well.

I'm not going to give you all the details and all the things you need to do in order to dress to impress women, however, what I'm going to share with you are the basic steps to make you very attractive and highly unique so that you can start attracting women tonight!

The first thing you have to understand about dressing to impress women is that your body language is much more important than what you are wearing.

For example, many guys would wear the latest jeans and shoes and still have no luck attracting women; they will even have horrible moments with themselves at the end of the day because they will feel like losers!

The secret is in what you are doing with your body, your body language is very important to making a great first impression on women.

That’s why you need to master it first, it’s quite simple, just focus on these things:

  1. Don't laugh a lot

  2. Don't walk bend, walk straight

  3. Take good care of your hair and facial hygiene

  4. Make sure your teeth are white and complete

  5. Don't talk rapidly

  6. Talk of smoothly and as slowly as possible

  7. Relax your body before going out.


If you start applying these body language tricks, you are truly going to fit into whatever clothes you are going to wear.

Now, let's talk about the most important item when dressing to impress women: jeans.

I'm not talking here about jeans particularly, what I'm talking about is any kind of trousers that are cool and trendy, the thing you need to learn is that you have to wear ones that will make your body look sexy, trousers that will show your sexiness while hiding your "defects".

The best thing you can do is to buy from brand names like Levi's, Springfield and my favorite ones Diesel, these brands are known to make the best jeans in the world, in fact, I only buy my jeans from Diesel, they cost more, but they are very attractive to women.

If you have a limited budget, you can always log on to eBay or some e-commerce website and get affordable ones, you can buy some Diesel jeans with very minor defects that looks great and cost nothing!

The second thing you need to focus on when dressing to impress women is your shoes.

Whenever you want to attract women with your clothes, you have to pay very close attention to your shoes, it’s because they are responsible for how women are going to see all your other clothes.

For example, if you are wearing amazing clothes but your shoes sucks, nothing will work!

Get yourself some expensive and high-quality shoes, forget about sport shoes and brands such as Adidas or Nike, these are good if you are a runner or want to play sports, but when it comes to dressing to seduce women, you have to wear shoes that are made to look great with jeans, Italian shoes to be exact!

The best thing you can do is to consult with women, I personally take women's advice when I want to buy shoes, I really don't know how to explain this, but women have got a great taste when it comes to clothing.

The next area you need to focus on is your shirts.

Always avoid wearing colorful and extravagant shirts; anything which resembles a Hawaiian shirt should be avoided as much as possible!

Always wear colors that are uniform, for example, black, dark blue, dark brown or dark green, these are the colors I highly recommend you to wear if you are not capable of choosing the best clothes for yourself, in other words, these are the best choices for men.

The next area to focus on is your belt

I'm sure that you are going to think that this is not a very impressive clothing item, but the truth is that it counts a lot, and women will notice it almost immediately.

The best advice I can give you for having the most attractive belt is to choose belt buckles that are very unique and stylish.

Now, let's talk about the final item you should focus on when dressing to impress women, apply a great cologne

Having a great cologne is not optional, it’s a must.

And I really recommend that you invest in a great cologne brand like Gucci or Armani, these are the ones I wear often and they are simply amazing and very attractive to women.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Body language signs women do when flirting

The majority of guys already know about the importance of flirting, but the thing I've noticed over and over is that they really don't know when women start flirting with them and when they stop!

This is a huge problem because if you cannot distinguish when women are flirting with you, how can you react to them the right way and how can you tweak your body language in order to start flirting with them back!

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Four mantras for attracting women

According to Wikipedia, mantras are "… a sound, syllable, word, or group of words that’s considered capable of "creating transformation"…"

That’s why I'm going to share with you the four most interesting mantras for attracting women, these have influenced my life dramatically and have made me the successful person with women I am today.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

How to use eye contact for flirting with women

It’s quite impressive what you can do with your eyes when it comes to meeting and flirting with women, this is what you are going to learn in this post, how to use eye contact the right way for flirting and attracting the ladies.

And even if most people are going to tell you that to attract women you have to speak your way to it, I do not agree, I think that the best language we have is that of the body, the more you use your body language the more you are going to attract them and create a great experience with them.

Let me tell you about the best techniques to seduce and flirt with women using only your eyes.

The first technique relies on being playful.

I hate it when guys tell me that flirting is all about saying nice things to women and making them laugh, I do not agree!

I think that flirting is more about being sexually playful with women and not being serious.

So, the best use you can have for your eyes when flirting with women is "playing" with them, that’s why I really enjoy looking deeply at women and not breaking my eye contact while coming very close to them, this will look scary, but it’s very attractive and women are either going to laugh or smile.

The second is doing childish things.

When we were kids, we were never scared of girls, in reality, we had no sexual tensions and we didn't feel ashamed about our desires, that’s why we were able to play and tease them all day long, however, when we grew up, we became self-conscious and aware of our desires and by being exposed to negative media influences, we came to think that our sexual desires are simply bad!

This is not true, and we need to discover our old childhood minors if we want to attract women again.

This is why one of the best techniques you can use for flirting is being childish, frowning and playing with your eyebrows while talking to a woman.

For example, if you are sitting with her having a drink and she asks you to pass the peanuts, simply say no, look at her and frown while playing with your eyebrows, I've done this trick many times and women simply love it.

The third technique is looking at them and then looking elsewhere.

I really enjoy doing this a lot when I'm with a beautiful woman, I will look at her while talking to me and then I will look elsewhere, I would even position my torso away from her redirection!

Women simply go strange and bizarre about this, they do not like it and the thing here is to not overdo it, what you can do is quite simple, look them when they are talking to you and then look away, then look back and then look away while smiling at them!

I know that this is going to sound and look childish, but women enjoy it and you are going to have a lot of fun doing it.

This is how to use your eye contact for flirting with women, if you have other techniques and other tricks, please share them in a comment.

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Flirting – the best conversation starters

There are many flirting techniques and conversation starters you can use with women, but the ones I'm going to share with you in this post are proven to work and are also very simple.

Before I tell you about these amazing flirting conversation starters, you need to understand that flirting is not what you may think it  is!

Most guys are going to think that flirting is a way of playing and having fun with a woman, well it’s not really that, flirting simply means being sexually playful and arousing sexual desires and interests in women.

This is what flirting is and you need to be aware that if you do not aim at arousing sexual desires and interests in women, you are simply not flirting!

So, let’s start with the best conversation starters to use when flirting with women.

The first one is the smile.

When I'm talking about conversation starters, I don't necessarily mean saying something! For example, smiling is one of the best conversation starters you can use with women, it’s not very difficult, and it will only require a little courage from you, but it’s very easy and women respond wonderfully to it.

So, this is how to use smiling as a conversation starter when flirting with a woman:

Simply establish eye contact with her and then smile a little, then keep eye contact with her until she looks away!


This is a very simple and effective conversation starter to ignite women's desire and interest in you.

The second conversation starter when flirting is to simply say hi!

But I don't mean here saying hi in the casual friendly way, what I mean here is looking at a woman for long time, smile at her and then say hi in a very slow and masculine way.

Your voice should be deep and resonant and you should keep eye contact for as long as necessary.

This is simply one of the easiest flirting conversation starters you can use with women, especially shy ones.

The third conversation starter is asking a stupid question.

Flirting is all about being playful and it’s all about creating a surprising effects!

When you surprise and astonish a woman in a positive way, she is going to immediately feel good about you, and this is what this conversation starter is going to do:

Simply smile at a woman and then ask her "why are you smiling at me?"

Trust me, most women will not be able to answer you and they will not be able to explain what is going on!

It’s because women will feel turned on when you ask them such a daring question.

These are the easiest flirting conversation starters, if you have other ones, please share them in a comment.

Saturday, August 3, 2013

The most essential list of questions to ask a girl you just met

There are probably thousands of questions you can ask a girl, but today, I'm only going to give you the most important ones, I will sort them in a list that will make things easy for you.

I highly recommend that you print them and start training yourself on asking them to girls all the time.

So, let's begin with the best questions to ask a girl, before I reveal this list to you, I need to warn you that your body language is very important and if you do not pay close attention to what you are saying and more importantly how you are saying it, you are going to sound insecure and unbalanced!

So, the first question to ask a girl is: who are you?

I know that this question is going to sound very rude and unfriendly, but trust me, girls love to talk about themselves and whenever you ask a girl about herself and things she likes to do, she is going to submerge you with useful information about her and things she really enjoy about her life and herself.

However, don't be a jerk and ask her "who are you?" rudely, no, don't do it, just ask her variants of this question, for example "what are the things you enjoy doing?", "can you tell me more about yourself?", "who are the people you really enjoy talking to in your life?" etc.

In fact, any question that’s related to her personality and personal life is going to be extremely important for her and she is going to give it her heart when answering it, this will give you the right knowledge to know more about her and to start paying close attention to things she is really attracted to, this will make you the most important person in her life very soon because you will know a lot about her and more importantly, you are going to know how to seduce her.

The second question to ask a girl is: what is your zodiac sign?

However, don't ask this question unless you already know how to interpret every zodiac sign, be ready to sound cheesy and superficial, this is probably one of the best things you can talk about with a girl, and more importantly, she is going to appreciate your interest in her.

The third question is: what is your favorite food?

This question is also very valuable because it’s going to give you amazing information about her taste and where to take her out in the future.

The fourth question is how many sisters do you have?

I've noticed this amazing thing whenever I'm talking to girls, it’s the fact that they love to talk about their sisters, yes, even if they have brothers, they will enjoy talking about their sisters more!

I don't know why, but you need to use it to your advantage.

The fifth question is: what are the things you enjoy doing?

This is also extremely important to know more about her, and you should remember such valuable information because whenever you take her out on a date, you need to take her where she is going to be comfortable and friendly.

The sixth question is how many loyal friends do you have?

This question tends to be a little embarrassing to most girls, especially if they don't have lots of friends, but if they have loyal friends, they are going to feel very pleased about it and are going to talk about them for long time.

However, you need to understand one important fact about this list of questions, it’s the fact that if you do not know how to interpret the information about them and make them talk more about themselves, then you are going to be wasting time and you will shortly run out of questions to ask them.

That’s why I highly recommend that you start paying close attention to what girls are saying to you and also start asking more questions, don't rely heavily on this list, just try to listen to them and tell them to elaborate on what they have said to you.

Friday, August 2, 2013

The best way to talk to women

There are many ways you can talk to women, however, most are going to involve canning and deception which is going to make you appear as a very weak and opportunistic person, because most of these ways to talking to women rely on jokes and pickup lines which do not reflect who you really are, and women are going to sense this immediately when you start talking to them!

I'm going to show you the best way to talk to a woman, this way is not going to rely on deceiving or manipulating her, it relies on authentic materials and will make you the best and most attractive guy around.

The first step in talking to women is to master your body language.

By using the wrong body language, you are going to look like a jerk , without a purpose and without any "natural attraction"!

When you go talk to women, you are simply going to use lots of words without any meaning, that’s what’s going to happen when you don't master your body language!

The right body language is going to add value to your words and is going to add a complex meaning that only women understand.

The body language techniques to focus on in order to truly talk to women the right way are:

  1. Always look women in the eyes, establish stronger and unthreatening eye contact

  2. Never lean on women

  3. Always listen to women

  4. Always use your hands and torso when talking, it’s going to add depth and meaning to your words

  5. Don’t laugh a lot, just smiled a little

  6. Don’t talk nervously, talk relaxed and in a slow manner, and remember, the more you talk, the more you are going to make mistakes and problems


If you apply these steps, you are not only going to talk to the right way to women, you are also going to make yourself truly memorable to them.

The second step to talking to women the right way is to avoid relying on words.

This is probably one of the most important steps to use for talking the right way to women, because most guys are going to rely on words for conveying their meanings, they are going to keep repeating themselves and "telling" women their ideas and topics, when in fact, women do not care about words a lot, what they care about is emotions and actions.

That’s why you need to avoid using words a lot, instead, simply start listening to women and paying attention to what they say, then try to ask them questions about their feelings and the meaning of their actions.

You can also start to communicate with them more deeply by asking about their past and what they are aspiring to do in the future.

I know that what I'm telling you here is not a conventional technique for talking to women, but this is the best way you can use with them because it’s not only going to make them truly attracted to you, it’s going to create a deep connection with them.

Now, let's talk about the last technique for truly talking to women the right way: never praising them.

I simply mean that you should stop praising women and complimenting them, in other words, do not tell them how great they are often, just let them prove themselves to you, it’s one of the best and easiest things you can do in order to make them truly attracted to you, you are always going to appear as a challenge and a mystery.

"You are the best girlfriend" quotes – a list

Let me give you a list of the most revealing and warm "You are the best girlfriend" quotes.