Saturday, November 30, 2013

How to know if a woman is lying to you through her body language

A major technique used in the police force to know whether a person is lying or not is reading his body language! However, even the most trained police officers may find it difficult to know whether a woman is lying to them or not.

I'm not going to say that I'm better than these guys, but I know for sure that women are going to use some very specific body language when they are lying to a man, these are the body language expressions I'm going to show you today.

So, the first body sign women are going to use when they are lying is being extremely obvious.

This is probably one of the trickiest body language signs to look for when you want to know whether a woman is lying to you or not.

Because it’s not very obvious to men and this is how women are going to act:

When you accuse her of something or want to learn the truth about something that a woman wants to hide from you, she will just tell you a very convincing and extremely "obvious" information.

A friend of mine was suspecting that his fiancée was cheating on him with another guy, so he asked her this question "where were you yesterday at five o'clock?", She looked at him while feeling very confident and told him "I was having coffee with some friends after getting out of work", she said it very coldly and unemotionally.

He believed her, but when he told me about this, I immediately knew that she was lying to him because most of the times, women who are innocent are going to cry and get highly emotional when you ask them such questions and are going to feel horrible and even mad at you!

And indeed, he found out later that she was having an affair for more than three months with a coworker!

This body language trick is very suspicious!

I know that this is going to look extremely tricky to you, but if you are intelligent enough to keep your emotions quiet, then you will know for sure that she is probably lying to you if she is too "obvious".

The second body language sign women do when they are lying is being too nice!

This is a very simple body language sign that you can understand and notice very rapidly, women are going to be extremely nice to you when they want to hide something from you or when they are lying to you.

I guess it’s their way of making you "not aware" of what they have done!

For example, you may ask her about her feelings about you and she may say that she loves you, but then, she starts acting very nice, talking to you in a very gentle way and even preparing your favorite dish, this is only suspicious when the woman has been acting strangely lately, then, you can be extremely sure that she is simply lying to you.

The third sign women make when they are lying is avoiding eye contact.

This is also a very obvious one, however, sometimes, if women are worried or anxious, they are going to avoid eye contact too, that’s why I do not recommend relying on it a lot, simply when you are talking to a woman and she is lying to you, she will simply avoid looking right into your eyes, I guess it’s their consciousness torturing them!

These are the most obvious body language signs to know whether a woman is lying to you or not, if you know other ones, share them with me in a comment.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Amazing topics women like to talk about

If you don't know what women like to talk about and what subjects interest them, you are not going to have success with them!

I've made this important realization ten years ago when I started learning about women and relationships, I was putting a lot of efforts and huge amounts of energy into understanding women and being attractive to them, however, no matter how much I spoke or what I'd do, they would always see me as an insecure and a not very attractive guy!

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

The most beautiful compliments to a woman

Most attraction gurus are going to warn you against using compliments to attract women, I'm also going to do the same, however, there are some compliments that will work amazingly well, but you have to not use them a lot, because they are going to drive them away from you, and you will look like a loser!.

Compliments are very conflicting and are also extremely depressing to women because if you don't say enough of them, women are not going to like you, however, if you use too much, women are going to avoid paying attention to you because you are simply going to sound like every other guy who approach them!

So, I'm going to provide you with the most beautiful compliments to a woman, the ones that women truly want to hear from men.

However, in order for you to use them, you should have established a relationship with the woman first, in other words, if you say these compliments to a stranger, she is not going to like them and she is simply going to think that you are a loser!

The first beautiful compliment to a woman is: "you make me feel strange".

This compliment is truly amazing because it does not imply that you love her, it only implies that she makes you feel strange and different.

One more thing, when you say this compliment, don't elaborate on it and don't try to say that you are feeling attracted to her, in other words, women are expecting that you do not reveal the nature of your compliments and do not reveal that your true feelings, they love secrets about you and the more she doesn't know, the more she is going to stick around and find you attractive!

That’s why this compliment is simply one of the best you can say to women, especially if she is a very sensual and romantic woman.

The second beautiful compliment is: your hair smells nice.

Trust me, this compliments, although it may sound too sexual, is not very romantic, because if you analyze it, a mother can say this compliment to her daughter and a friend can say this compliment to another friend, however, when you say it to another woman, it will have a very ambiguous and secretive meaning to it and most women are not going to be able to interpret it, in fact, when you say it using very strong and dominant body language, most women are not going to be able to resist it and they are going to brush or play with their hair.

It’s truly one of the most beautiful compliments you can say to a woman because it gives them value and pride in themselves and it makes them feel beautiful.

The third compliment is: I really like spending time with you.

This one is also extremely satisfying to a woman, especially if she likes you and like spending time with you too.

However, I do not recommend using it a lot because it will lose its strength and effect very quickly.

In fact, this advice is also targeted to the other compliments in this post because once you start using them over and over, women are going to become desensitized to them and within a short period of time, you are simply going to lose all your chances with women.

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

How to talk to women on the phone

In this post, you are going to learn about the right way to talk to women on the phone, believe me when I tell you, calling a woman and talking to her is a very difficult process and to succeed in your future dating with her, you need to make sure that this step is cared for and is performed the right way.

The first step to talking to women on the phone is about when to call them.

There are conflicting ideas in the internet and the online seduction community about the time needed to call women.

Some will say seven days, others will tell you three days, but I personally think that the best time to call woman is almost immediately!

This will sound very needy and extremely unlikely to work, but it will! And women are going to feel quite happy about you doing it.

It’s because most guys are going to the inverse thing, they are going to wait and wait for a very long time before calling a woman, thinking that she will think that they are losers if they call her earlier!

But this is not the truth; women know about the three days rule and will give guys a hard time if they apply this stupid game with them, that is why you need to call the woman as soon as you get home.

I would simply call her when I get home and talk to her for about three minutes, then I will hang up without setting a date with her.

The next step is setting a date with the woman.

Don't imagine that you are going to seduce her only using the phone, this is totally stupid and it should be avoided!

It’s because most of the seduction and attraction is going to occur with the help of your body language and when you call women on the phone, it’s not going to be extremely beneficial for you because you are not going to enjoy her company and you are not going to become sexually involved with her, you are simply going to act out her sexual fantasies on the phone without ever getting true benefits!

That is why when I talk to women on the phone, I always have the main objective in front of me, which is getting a date with her.

I will propose to meet her as soon as possible and if she refuses the first time, I will try to set another time, and if she doesn't want to, then I would simply move on because some women may give you their phone numbers while not really thinking about going out with you, this is simply going to be a waste of time and it should be avoided.

These are the most important things to focus on when talking to women on the phone.

Monday, November 25, 2013

Flirty body language, how to read it

I'm going to share with you the most important flirty body language expressions women are going to use when they are with a man they like and most importantly how to read them.

Flirty body language number one is: looking into the ground.

Whenever women are flirting with you, one of the most used body language expressions they are going to use is looking to the ground or to their shoes.

This simply means that they are feeling shy about their emotions and they are giving you the right signals that they are considering you a dominant person and an attractive one as well.

I know that when you read the word "dominant", you may think that it’s a bad thing, but when you are dealing with women, it’s a completely normal thing because they are attracted to only the most dominant guys.

The second flirting body language feature women use is: smiling.

It’s very important to be able to read women's body language when they are flirting with you, and smiling is the most used signal of attraction and flirting.

However, there is a difference between a fake and a real smile.

The fake smile is not going to involve the eyes, it’s only going to involve the mouth and the lower facial muscles, however, the real smile is going to involve all the parts of the face and most importantly the eyes.

You need to be able to read this amazing body language feature women are flirting with you because some they are simply going to try to manipulate you using their smiles, and if you are not aware of their genuine intentions, you are going to believe that they are attracted to you when in fact they are simply trying to lie to you or get something from you!

For more information about distinguishing between fake and genuine smiles, read this amazing article: http://science.kqed.org/quest/2008/01/24/the-eyes-have-it/

The third body language technique women are going to use is: touching.

Women can’t stop themselves from touching their hair, body, clothes or even you when they are attracted to you.

That’s why you need to be extremely careful when flirting with a woman, because if she does not touch you, she is not caring a lot about you and she may be lacking emotions and positive feelings towards you.

So, whenever you are talking with her and she is slightly touching her hair, clothes or anything, then she is feeling good about you and she trusts you, however if her hands are motionless, this means that she is not caring a lot about you.

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Simple yet very effective ways to impress women

There are many ways you can use to impress a woman, but most of these are going to require a lot of money and a lot of confidence, if you don't have these two elements, you can use my very simple and effective techniques, they are very easy to apply and will give you a great result and a positive emotional burst from women very quickly.

The first way to impress women is to smell great.

And I'm not talking here about buying the latest deodorant or colon, what I'm talking about here is having a unique smell to you.

A friend of mine is an expert at making himself very memorable to women; he puts on a very delicate and arousing fragrance that women cannot resist!

When I asked him about it, he simply confessed that he makes his own cologne!

At first I thought that he was going to pay a lot of money for such a thing, but he told me about his secret, he goes to the Asian market in his city and simply head for the perfume shop, he then ask the seller about different fragrances and then mix the ones who likes together, you cannot believe how many real cologne experts are in such places.

This is what my friend does for impressing women, I personally think that this is a great idea however; I do not have a cologne expert in my city, that’s why I prefer to buy my colognes online.

I will choose the most praised and positively reviewed cologne and I will use it, in fact I will buy many colognes and keep only the ones that will give me the best results and the best compliments from women.

The second way to impress women is to have great dental hygiene.

My ways to impress women may look strange, but the ladies are really paying close attention to them and are really going to be highly impressed whenever you have them.

I was once kissing a woman when I felt that she was a bit discomforted, after some few weeks, I asked her and require that she answered honestly, she told me that I had a hint of the bad smell in my mouth!

I am a very clean person, I brush my teeth three times a day and floss them every night, however, some women were annoyed by the smell in my mouth, that’s why I've started taking mint gums with me all the time.

If you don't do the same, you are not going to have troubles and problems when kissing women.

These are the simplest and most effective ways to impress women, if you know other ones, please contribute to this post and share them in a comment.

Thursday, November 21, 2013

How to mirror body language when flirting with women

There are many body language techniques you can use for attracting women, however, the most effective one in my opinion is mirroring, when you are "imitating" the body language of women on purpose!

They are going to feel a deep connection with you and are going to like hanging out with you more.

I'm sure that you've already heard of people saying that we like to hang out with people who resemble us the most, well, this is absolutely true and we may not only like to hang out with these people, but we are also going to feel comfortable and at peace when they are around.

That’s why you need to start mirroring the body language of women whenever you are flirting with them, it’s the best way to make sure they are feeling happier and much more comfortable to be with you, and this is going to create an almost instant attraction.

However, to mirror women's body language when flirting with them, you need to have the right techniques; otherwise you are simply going to look like a jackass!

The first technique then is to never mirror women's body language immediately.

I've thought many guys how to "speak" women's subtle and secretive language, body language, however the thing I notice often is that when they start mirroring them, one of the major flaws they do is looking like a robot! In other words, immediately mirroring women's body language!

For example, they are speaking to a woman and she scratches her nose or folds her legs, they will immediately fold their legs too!

This is the most direct way to get rid of a woman and look like a psycho!

The best thing you can do when trying to mirror women's body language when flirting with them is to simply have a waiting time, less than ten seconds is the most appropriate time in my opinion.

The second technique is to always be different.

Don't try to mirror them exactly, for example, if she folds her legs in a specific way, don't imitate her exactly! Simply fold your legs a little differently; it’s going to tell the woman subconsciously that you are a friendly guy because you are having the same thought patterns and the same body language as her.

The third technique is to make her mirror you.

This is the most important technique when it comes to mirroring women's body language , especially when flirting, it’s to make them do the same as you.

The first step is to always mirror them, then slightly start anticipating their movements and body language, for example after she folds her legs, she is certainly going to unfold them later, just wait a little and then unfold your legs before she does!

I know that this is going to look manipulative and somehow dishonest, but this is a technique that will work every time and within a short period of time, women are going to feel so close and attracted to you.

The fourth technique when mirroring women's body language is to never rely on this technique alone!

I've met some "pick up artists" who were so focused on mirroring women's body language that they forgot other techniques and other excellent methods for attracting them, this made them look artificial and dishonest!

Women quickly started noticing how crooked and unreal they were!

That’s why I highly recommend that mirroring should only be used to "spice" things up with women, don't overuse it!

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Am I a needy boyfriend?

If you have got the characteristic and the traits you are going to read about in this post, then I'm sorry to say this news but you are probably a needy boyfriend!

One of the most horrible things that can happen to a relationship is you becoming extremely needy around your girlfriend, it does not only mean that you are going to lose her soon, it also means that you are going to have a painful breakup and even cheating!!

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

She is avoiding eye contact, is she flirting?

I have already explained in numerous posts that eye contact was the best body language technique you can use for attracting and seducing women, but, eye contact tend to be extremely difficult to master and most of the time very puzzling, especially when you can't read or understand the body language of women.

A very common body language trick women play on men is avoiding eye contact with them, what does this mean? And is it flirting?

First of all, what does flirting mean?


Flirting is simply sexy play, in other words, the woman is trying to play tricks on you and is trying to make you wait!

She is making you suffer a little in order to see whether you are truly interested in her or not.

Flirting is also a great way of increasing attraction and increasing sexual desire, you can think of it as an initial foreplay.

There are many techniques women use for flirting, and one of them is avoiding eye contact.

What does avoiding eye contact me when flirting mean?

When a woman avoids eye contact with you, it can mean many things and it can have many interpretations.

It all depends on the type of eye contact she's doing.

There are two kinds of eye contact avoidance:

The first one is when the woman simply turns away her eyes to the left or to the right or she just keeps staring coldly somewhere else other than you, if you are confronted with this type of eye contact, it will mean one thing: she's not interested!

However, if she looks down or smiles a little and look to one side, it simply means that she is very excited about you and she wants you to approach her and talk to her.

The next eye contact women do when flirting that I would like to talk about is when you keep looking at her eyes and then she avoids eye contact with you.

This is completely normal, and most women are going to do it, in fact, if a woman keeps staring at you and keeps maintaining eye contact, this means that she is not interested and she is even trying to challenge you or see whether you can keep eye contact with her or not!

I really don't appreciate women doing this at all because they tend to have a very "childish" personality, in fact, their personality is manly!

That’s all you need to understand about eye contact from women.

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Four essential tips for talking to women

You can certainly learn about a million tips on talking to women, but most will be very boring and useless because I can sum up all of them into these four amazing tips and save you a lot of time and energy:

The first important tip on talking to women is to always put her first.

By this, I don't mean that you should make women into a sacred thing and try to never upset them or make them angry with you!

I simply mean that you need to always talk about things women are interested to hear.

For example, a friend of mine once started talking to a very beautiful woman, the first things he brought into the conversation were: "how old are you?", "Where do you live?" Etc. she became very irritated and she went away as rapidly as she could!

By putting women first, I simply mean that you need to talk about topics that intrigue and interest them, for example, talk about movies or psychology, women love these subjects and would spend many hours listening to you and talking about them.

The second thing you need to understand about this tip is to always make women talk about themselves!

Don't talk about yourself and please, don't brag about things you have done, just listen to them and encourage them to talk more about themselves and their lives, it will give you highly useful information for seducing them in the future.

The second tip on talking to women is to always have a deep voice.

Please, go to YouTube and try to watch clips from concerts, for example.

Watch clips from Bruce Springsteen’s concerts and see how women go crazy for his voice and his solo acts!

Women enjoy hearing a deep masculine voice, forget about teenage stuff and soap operas, these things are useless when it comes to talking to women, only talk to women by your masculine and manly voice, it’s the best tool to attract them.

Your voice is going to tell them that you are a mature, fully developed men, it’s going to attract them and make you extremely memorable to them.

The third tip is to never, ever talk about your past relationships or your past romances.

Not only you, but you should also stop her from talking about such topics, or you are going to become her "female" friend, you are going to become her sister and she will never F you!

That’s why you have to stay away from topics that are "nice" and good boy, only talk about things you feel interested in and that are not going to lower your value in her eyes.

For example, a friend of mine always talks about work and routine stuff, trust me, he never gets laid!

It’s because women are going to be fed up with his topics and are not going to feel highly interested in him.

However, whenever I'm talking to women, the first thing I would bring into the discussion is stupid things I would like to do in the future, not me and her, just myself, for example, I will tell her about a new restaurant I want to go to or a sandwich I have in my fridge I'm eager to eat tonight!!!

Trust me, women enjoy talking about stupid stuff and they tend to like men who got the self-confidence to bring such stupid subjects into the conversation.

Of course, you should not just talk about stupid things, you should also "spice" your conversations with drama and psychology, they are amazing topics that impress women.

That’s why you have to stay away from talking about useless stuff like your work or your parental problems that will make you look like a stupid "friendly" person.

The fourth tip on talking to women is to always look them in the eyes.

I've read this in many magazines and blogs:

"Eye contact is the King of techniques for seducing women"


I think that this is the best advice I can give you about talking to women because once you start looking them in the eyes, they are going to become highly impressed and interested in you.

It’s because not many men are going to do this when they are talking to women, they are going to look down and try to avoid looking them right in the eyes because they have been brought up with the idea that looking in people's eyes is bad and rude!

These are the best tips I can give you on the right way to talking to women, please, try to apply them as much as possible, your dating life is going to improve dramatically.

Saturday, November 16, 2013

Three essential tips to attracting women

If you want to attract women easily, you have to start applying these three essential tips; otherwise you are simply going to find yourself in the friend zone very rapidly.

Most guys will have a difficult time attracting women because they are not using these essential tips.

They are not very easy to apply! But with perseverance and trying them every day, you will integrate them into your personality and you will soon feel and be extremely attractive to women.

The first tip to attract women is to be sexual.

I don't mean here something pervert or nasty, what I'm talking about is your true nature, a sexual being!

Most guys will fear that because they have sexual desires they are going to be viewed as perverts or animalistic beings, but this is not the truth, women respect sexuality and are attracted to it, and if you deny yourself this pleasure, you are simply going to find yourself alone and depressed!

most guys will never have any luck with women because they are simply lacking the sexual go, by this I mean that whenever you are with a woman and you have no intention or future plans for kissing her and making love to her, you are simply going to find yourself as her friend very shortly!

I know that this is not what you are hoping for, but this is the essence of attracting women, it’s all about sex, and the sooner you accept it the better for you.

You should never deny yourself and women this amazing pleasure and please, read a good book on how to please women, in fact, if you do not, you are going to be an illiterate man!

The best book I can recommend is called "she comes first", I cannot recommend this book enough and I think that both you and the woman are going to enjoy it a lot.

The second tip to attracting women is to always be ready to leave.

This is one of the most strange things that will attract women to you, the lesser you are attached to them; the more they are going to like you!

This is simply one of the most important tips to attract women, and you need to always remember it.

Some few years ago, I was just starting to learn how to seduce women and I had this idea that if I called a woman a lot and romanced her, like in the movies, she will fall in love with me very quickly!

But this is not the truth, the woman is going to hate it, and in fact, after dating her for some few times, you should slow down and relax, you should let her come to you and decide whether she wants things to go on with you or not.

So, stop calling women a lot and stop hanging around them too much, just focus on giving them quality time and fun moments with you, then let them come to you naturally.

And the third tip to attracting women is to meet a lot!

The more women you have in your life the more you are going to attract.

I'm not an ugly guy, I know who I am and I know how good looking I am, but for a very long time, I couldn't attract women into my life and the more I tried the more failures I experienced, that’s when I started focusing on learning about this area of my life and just meeting women and having lots of female friends, my success went to the roof!

Trust me, women are going to read in your body language that you come from a place of abundance and that you have a lot of women waiting for you to call them, they are going to notice this rapidly in your manners and ways of behaving and are going to feel attracted to you, even when they want to stop themselves, they can't!

In other words, women are looking for a man who's got an abundant life, if you are desperate to meeting a woman, she is not going to like it, however if you are not trying too hard, she is going to follow you and like being with you.

These are the most important steps and tips to attracting women, if you know other ones, please share them in a comment.

Friday, November 15, 2013

How to read women’s body language signals

There are many techniques for reading women's body language expressions and signals, but most of these techniques are not going to work! It’s because most woman you are not obvious enough!

For example, I've read in a book that if a woman start touching her hair, then she is attracted, this is obviously not a very reliable technique because most women are going to touch their hair when they are talking to people, in fact, women are going to do this often even when they are alone!

The body language signals and signs I'm going to share with you in this post are truly amazing when it comes to knowing exactly what are women's intentions.

However, I have to warn you that I'm not going to share with you all the body language signals women are going to use, I'm only going to give you the most "essential" ones.

It’s because you are going to be confused and will lose focus very rapidly, in other words, you are going to be overwhelmed by the information, this is why you need to only learn about the most essential ones, you can read about other body language signals in other posts in this website.

The first body language expression women use often is about their eyes.

If you cannot read women's eyes, you are simply going to be confused by their actions. For example, a woman may tell you that she likes you, but if you are not able to distinguish her eye movements, and what they mean, you are going to keep focusing on something that does not exist or in other words, you are not going to use the right actions.

The most important thing is to learn how to distinguish and know what women are thinking of by just analyzing their eye movements.

If a woman is looking to the ceiling, looking at, she is trying to imagine something, if she is looking sideways, she is trying to remember a sound, and if she is looking at the ground, she is simply revealing her attraction to you.

However, if a woman is looking directly into your eyes for long time, she's not attracted to you!

The second body language area you need to focus on is the hands.

Women are extremely agile with their hands, they are going to use a lot of hand gestures that most men don't know of.

These are the most obvious and important things women do with their hands:

  1. If a woman is talking to you while her hands are relaxed and not moving, then she is not interested in you.

  2. If a woman is interacting with you while explaining things with her hands, then she wants to convince you and she is having feelings for you.

  3. If a woman is touching you with her hands sometimes, she is simply trying to communicate her attraction and desire to you.


The next body language area to focus on when communicating with women is the face.

This is probably one of the most important body language signals to learn how to read in women, because it’s truly complicated and will reveal a lot about the woman you are interacting with.

The most important thing to notice is the smile, whenever a woman is smiling while talking to you, try to look at her eyes and see whether her smile is genuine or not.

These are the most important body language signals to focus on when communicating with women, if you have a question or a comment you would like to post, please use the form below.

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

The most romantic questions to ask a girl

Girls are emotional by nature, that’s why I highly advise you to always talk about emotional topics and avoid technical and concrete discussions, they are going to bore and drive them away.

One of the most interesting topics to talk about with girls and women is romance, in fact, most women are going to enjoy talking about romantic things, however if you don't know the right romantic questions to ask them, you are simply going to look lame and cheesy!

Monday, November 11, 2013

Six amazing affirmations to attract women

I really believe in the power of affirmations to attracts women, although most guys are going to think that saying words to yourself everyday is not going to be of great success and help to you, I assure you that it’s one of the simplest and most effective ways to increase your confidence and also your chances of talking and meeting beautiful women every single day.

Saturday, November 9, 2013

The best questions to ask a girl over text

When I was first meeting girls, I only used the telephone e, Internet was still a new thing and I had no idea what text messages were!

However, in the last years, text messages became the most useful tools to seduce and flirt with girls!

That’s why I'm going to give you a list of the best questions to ask a girl over text, if you ask her these questions, she is going to like you and she is going to feel hot for you very quickly.

The first question is "what are you thinking about?"

This is probably one of the best questions to ask a girl in order to trigger a conversation over text, it’s going to intrigue her and it’s also going to open a floodgates of comments and ideas to talk about with her.

However, be ready to be extremely cocky and surprising to her when answering, because if you sound boring and uninteresting, you are going to lose her.

You need to understand that this question is extremely powerful because it will make her think about you over and over and it will also make her extremely interested in knowing what is on your mind and why did you ask her this in the first place.

The second question to ask a girl over text is " whatcha doing?"

Again, this question is very interesting and also extremely intriguing to girls because it’s going to allow them to talk about themselves a lot and it’s going to make them interested in knowing you more.

However, you need to understand that girls are going to most usually answer you with a test text like "nothing"!

You have to be highly witty in responding to such tests, you have to be cocky and tell her that she's boring and she has got no life and then ask her again" whatcha doing?"

Trust me; girls are going to feel intrigued by these questions.

So, these are the most interesting questions to ask a girl over text I use, if you know other ones, please post them in a comment below.

Friday, November 8, 2013

How to impress a woman the right way

There are absolutely thousands of ways to impress women, however most of these techniques are going to backfire on you because most of them are based on deceiving, and in the end, women are going to find out who you really are and they are simply going to run away from you!

The techniques I'm going to show you will really impress a woman and are going to make you appear as the best man possible for her; however, to apply them the right way, you need to see yourself as a great catch and a great man for women.

In other words, in order to impress a woman, you need to first impress yourself!


This is the truth!

When you genuinely like yourself, people are going to like you, especially women!

The first technique to impress a woman is to never try to impress her in the first place!

A friend of mine have got a great saying:

"Needing is losing"!


Whenever you need a woman, you are going to lose her and whenever you make too many efforts to get her, she will run away from you!

That’s why the most important technique to impress a woman is to never try to impress her in the first place.

For example, let's say that you are interested in a particular woman, the worst thing you can do is to try to impress her by doing extra efforts and acting in an unnatural way around her!

Women are experts at reading our body language, they are experts at interpreting our smallest gestures and signals, that’s why they are going to know everything about us just by looking at the way we speak and the way we talk to them.

So, if you have any intentions of impressing her, you need to get rid of them and act as natural as possible, don't try to avoid mistakes and to look "perfect", instead have fun and talk about things you really like, you will become highly attractive because you are normal!

The second way to impress a woman is to focus on something else.

Again, these techniques are going to look strange, but they are truly going to work and they are going to make you appear as the most interesting man around.

One of my favorite techniques to use when I'm with a woman is to focus on something else other than her!

For example, if I am with a very gorgeous woman, I will not talk to her about her beauty or compliment her, I will instead talk about drinks and other fun subjects, I will even tell her some stories about something that happened to me and have some laughs with her.

The important thing is to not make her the aim of the conversation, act as if you are with a friend.

The third way is to listen to her.

Women are very sensitive beings, they are also highly sociable and are all the time looking for social proofs from other people, that’s why when you listen to her, you are simply going to become the most interesting person around, she will feel validated and important.

It’s quite difficult to understand, but by giving women focused attention in the form of listening, you are praising them and complimenting them for being interesting and attractive.

And to women, this is the ultimate confident way to tell them that you care about them.

The fourth way to impress a woman is to be ready to leave.

I was once having a drink with a very beautiful woman, she was perfection on earth, nice breasts, a strong and feminine body, and a deep and beautiful voice, but from the very first moments, she was not paying enough attention to me, and no matter what I said, she would just answer with yes/no or okay, after five minutes of talking to her, I simply stopped and drunk my glass of wine, then I paid and went away!

I left her alone and shocked by my behavior!

I could read in her body language that she could not understand what I have done and she hated me for doing it, but at the same time she was feeling sorry for losing me and her eyes were expressing hurt and pride at the same time.

Needless to tell you, she called me that same night and she said that she was very sorry, I teased her a little and asked her to make me dinner in order to prove that she was truly sorry, she came to my house, brought groceries and made me a perfect dinner with the best "dessert"!

To impress a woman, you need to first be happy about yourself, be nice to yourself and respect yourself!

Tell yourself that there are millions of women who would give up everything to be with you, because the less you care about a woman the more she is going to care about you.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

The main characteristics of wussy men

In recent years, I kept reading the word "wussy" a lot, now, it’s all over the internet and even in TV and magazines, however, most guys do not understand what the wussy means!

The meaning of wussy is very simple, it’s a man who cannot act with confidence in life and especially when he is with women, he fears losing them and he fears losing face in front of a beautiful woman!

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Understanding women's body language – the eyes

One of the most important body language features you must understand and focus on for succeeding with women and attracting them is their eyes, if you are not paying careful attention to how they use them, you are going to find yourself in the friend zone very quickly because you will not be able to escalate things with them and you will not be able to create sustainable attraction.

The first eye movement you need to understand when trying to read women's body language is the eyes direction.

When you are talking to women and they are looking at a specific direction with their eyes, it simply means that they are having a thought or feeling in their minds, that’s why I highly recommend that you check out this webpage for understanding eye movements: http://www.skillsconverged.com/TrainingTutorials/BodyLanguage/BodyLanguageofIntentions.aspx it’s going to help you understand her eyes and her body language more.

The second thing you need to understand about her eyes is that they can tell you exactly how she is feeling about you.

For example, if a woman is talking to you while looking at her shoes or to the ground; she is feeling great about you and is probably attracted to you.

However, if a woman is looking directly right into your eyes, she is not feeling great about you and she may even try to dominate you with her body language or words.

The third eye movement you need to be careful about is the smile.

Although we usually think that smiling is not related to eye movements, in reality it’s extremely linked.

When you are talking to a woman and she is smiling, you need to be able to distinguish clearly whether she is faking it or her smiles are real.

There are tiny muscles around our eyes that we cannot move on purpose, that’s why when women are faking their smiles, their eyes are not going to react and move the same way as if they were smiling genuinely.

These are the most important I features you need to read in women's body language whenever they are interacting with you, if you have other ones, please share them in a comment.

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Afraid to talk to women? Here is the solution!

If you are afraid to talk to women, I'm going to provide you with a very simple solution that will not only get rid of your fear of rejection, but also get rid of any shyness and other psychological issues you may face when approaching and talking to women.

Just follow these simple steps:

The first step you need to apply is to start talking to as much people as possible.

I know that this is going to sound conflicting to what you may believe of the solution, because most guys are going to think that they are going to start reciting some lines or some affirmations, but this is not true, but I'm going to reveal to you here what will truly work for you and what will get rid of your fear of talking to women.

By talking to as much people as possible, you are simply going to turn yourself into a very sociable man, a man who can talk to not only women, but to all people around him.

Here is your challenge:

Every day, talk to at least ten [10] people, you can say hi or you can have long conversation, what I really want you to do is to talk to as many people as possible.

Take this very seriously and do it, it’s your only way out!

The second step to apply in order to get rid of your fears of talking to women is to start using affirmations every day.

One of the best techniques in order to install new habits and new thinking patterns in your mind is to use affirmations.

They are not very difficult and will yield amazing results very quickly.

Here are the best affirmations you can say every morning and every night before you go to sleep in order to increase your confidence with women:

  1. I am an attractive man

  2. I talk spontaneously and fearlessly with women

  3. I have no social fears

  4. I talk and listen to people

  5. I offer value to people

  6. I am a confident, attractive and generous man

  7. I accept myself completely and unconditionally


Repeat these affirmations "passionately and emotionally" every morning after waking up and night before you go to sleep and within just two months, you are going to find yourself truly courageous when it comes to talking to women.

The third step is to have women friends.

Women friends can be very helpful to you in your quest to finding the love of your life, because they are going to present you to their female friends and are also going to help you by giving you advices and techniques in order to approach and talk to women the right way.

For example, many of my women friends have given me important advices that have helped me in order to not only talk to women the right way, but to also become a better man, the way I look and the way I talk and listen to people.

So, in order to become truly courageous and confident when talking to women, you need to start paying attention to the women in your life!

For example, if you have a sister, start talking to her every day and listen to her, also, start talking with women at your work and listening to them, soon, you are going to find yourself at ease talking to women and within a very short period of time, you are going to have lots of dates in your life.

These are the best ways in order for you to get rid of your fears of talking to women, what I really advise you to do is to talk to women for at least thirty minutes a day, even if it’s your sister or your mom!

It’s a great way to get rid of your fear and you should also start talking to strangers, for example, if you are in a supermarket, don't just pay and go away! Go to the produce section and ask about a certain fruit or a certain clothe at the department store!

You need to become a very active and sociable man in order to start talking the right way to women and in order to avoid feeling fear when you are around them.

Friday, November 1, 2013

Women body language - signs that demonstrate attraction

When you want to seduce women, the first thing you need to understand is that they are going to use subtle messages and subtle body language signs to either show you that you are doing right or that you are doing terrible!

If you cannot understand these subtle messages and signs, you are going to lose their attention and attraction very quickly and worse than that, you won't have another chance with other women as well, in other words, not a catch!

That’s why you need to understand how to read women's body language, especially when they are attracted to you, because once you misinterpret or even worse, don't know what a woman is hinting to you, you are going to lose her and make her regret meeting you!

The first body language sign a woman who is attracted to you uses is looking.

This body language sign has never failed me, whenever I want to know for sure whether a woman is attracted to me or not, I will look for this sign.

It’s quite obvious to spot, whenever a woman is looking at you long enough, she is attracted to you! Whenever a woman is scanning you with her eyes, she is simply trying to get more information about you.

In other words, if a woman starts sizing you up, she is trying to get "the truth" about you and she may even be looking at you desirably!

Always look for this sign in women, they will do it no matter what she is saying or does, if a woman is attracted to you, she will keep looking at you for long time.

The second body language sign is talking to you!

I really don't know why some guys keep focusing on weird body language expressions and even try to give difficult explanations about how a woman is feeling about them!

There are much easier signs to spot, for example, when a woman is talking to you long enough while looking and smiling at you, she is simply attracted to you, don't think that a woman is going to reveal her attraction to you more obviously than this, she will not! This is the best she can give you, and if you do not understand this and interpret it the right way, she will get fed up with you very quickly.

So, whenever a woman is talking to you long enough, she is trying to get more information about you and she is even trying to convince you to stay with her more.

The third body language sign an attracted woman is going to do is laughing at your jokes.

We tend to forget that laughter and smiles are also body language signs and expressions, and women are going to use them a lot.

Women are going to talk and socialize with people, especially the ones they really like a lot.

If a woman is talking to you, smiling and laughing at every joke or everything you say, then she is simply trying to make a positive impression on you, she is trying to make you feel comfortable.

Now, why is she trying to make you comfortable?

It’s because she wants you to hang out with her more, she desires you and she wants to be with you more.

The fourth body language sign is teasing you.

Whenever a woman teases me in some way or the other, I immediately interpret that she is attracted to me.

What do I mean by teasing?

Teasing is simply when a woman is fooling around you, she may say something funny or she may even hit you a little, in reality, teasing is a kind of foreplay, the woman is simply sexually desiring you, and her desires play on her communication, that’s why she is going to be flirting and playful when you are around her.

If you know some other body language signs of attraction expressions from women, please share them, it will be great to get more perspectives on this very important area of attraction.

"You are the best girlfriend" quotes – a list

Let me give you a list of the most revealing and warm "You are the best girlfriend" quotes.