Friday, August 16, 2013

5 simple first date conversation starters

One of the most important moments in your dating life is your first dates, you have to be extremely calm, self-confident, self-assured and fun to be attractive, that’s why you need to start using these first date conversation starters whenever you are feeling hesitant and less confident.

The first conversation starter is an innocent question.

Although I don't like the word innocent here, this is what women are going to perceive when you ask them the following questions.

Women are simply going to respond calmly and nicely to you, most importantly, they are going to see that you are not a scary and frightening guy after all, they are going to trust you more and open up to you.

So, there are different questions you can ask women on your first dates that are going to be great conversation starters, but most tend to be used a lot by men and if you ask women such questions, you are simply going to be rehearsing what other men have probably already said to her!

The questions I'm going to share with you are extremely useful and most importantly, unique:

The first question is: "are you originally from here?"

Of course, you are not interested in her life story and what has brought her here, but this with make the woman talk about her past and why she is living here, and it will also give you hints about things to do next, for example, if you know the place very well and the woman is new, you can always take her to some places you think are cool, trust me, women love men guiding them.

The second question is: "what are your hobbies?"

Most guys are going to ask this question to women, but they are going to do it differently, they are going to ask the woman about things she loves to do, but, when you are asking her about her hobbies, she is going to answer you directly which is going to give you more materials to talk about and things to say.

The third question is: "what is your favorite color?"

This may sound like a stupid question, but women are truly interested in knowing about colors and styles, they are going to talk for a long time about things they love about a different color and the best thing you can do is to keep asking them about the reasons why they like such and such color or style.

The thing here is to get the woman to talk as much as possible and to get her to share with you, the more she talks about herself to you, the more "ammo" you are going to have to use later on when trying to seduce her.

The fourth question is "what is your astrological sign?"

Whatever her answer, ask her "do you really believe in astrology?", even if you don't believe in this, just get her to talk about her feelings and emotions, then ask her whether she has ever had something happen to her that was written in her astrological sign.

Trust me, most women are going to say "yes" and they are going to keep telling you about it.

These are the questions I really like asking women on first dates, they are fantastic conversation starters and they are going to get the woman in a very talkative mood.

The next first date conversation starter is: "you feel tense?"

This is a very weird question, but when you ask a woman to reveal her feelings about meeting you this way, she is likely to tell you "yes", this is absolutely very revealing because women are going to feel anxious and tense the first time they are going to meet you, when you ask them about it, they are going to confess their feelings and are going to feel less tense and less worried.

You are also going to look and feel like a great guy.

If you have more first date conversation starters, please share them in a comment.

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