I once saw an ad on TV where a man was cooking to a woman a perfect dinner, then the woman simply jumped on him and started kissing him passionately!So, is cooking going to impress a woman or not!?
The answer is yes and no, if you do the right steps, cooking is truly impressive to women, but if you don't know what you are doing, you are simply going to appear as a lame and unattractive person!
The first thing you have to learn about impressing women with cooking is that they are not interested in food!
This is the most important thing you have to remember from this post, it’s that women are not going to care about whether you cook for them a great meal or a lousy sandwich, they are simply interested in the interaction and fun.
Women are bored all the time, they want to have fun and they want to enjoy themselves when they are with you, that’s why the most important thing you need to understand here is that if you are not a funny and amusing person, you are simply going to have a bad evening with the woman, and even if you cook the perfect me, she will not be impressed by it a lot!
The important rule here is to entertain the woman.
The second rule is to focus on listening rather than cooking!
When you are with a woman that you really want to impress, the best thing is to not focus only on cooking for her, but to listen to her and let her speak her mind.
Let me give you a really important piece of information:
The more a woman talks to you, the more she is going to like you!
It took me more than five years to know this amazing piece of information, because the first times, I simply flooded women with information, practical things about my life, pickup lines and stupid stories, trust me, they have never worked!
I started having success by chance, one evening, I was too tired to try anything and I started listing to a woman, she loved and enjoyed it a lot!
And if you make a woman laugh while listening to her, you will become the number one man in her life.
But I don't mean that you should listen to everything she will tell you, if you do so, you will become her "girlfriend"!
What you must do is listen carefully to what she says and be critical from time to time, don't let her talk about her previous boyfriends or problems, simply smile and tell her to shut up and talk about something else, she can tell such details to her girlfriend, but not to you.
The third rule is participation.
Whenever you want to impress women by cooking for them, you need to make them participate!
This is extremely important because if you are cooking her a nice meal while she is just sitting and waiting for you to "serve her", then you are not going to look attractive and manly, you will simply become a waiter who will give her with a free meal.
When I want to cook to a woman, I will invite her to my house and then I will give her an apron and some instructions and tasks to do, I would even hold the apron in my hand and "help her" wear it!
Women love it when guys take the lead and order them, however, you must be very gentle and tease her.
The fourth rule to impress a woman when cooking for her is to feed her.
I don't want you to act like a pervert, but what I really want you to do is to "feed her" when she is eating with you.
I enjoy cutting pieces of meat or chicken and then simply use my fork and give her a taste. For example, you can cut a piece of meat and taste it, then cut her another piece and tell her that she will enjoy it, it’s very sexual, sensual and will create a deep bond with the woman.
I also really enjoy pouring wine to women, they go berserk!
The next and probably the most important rule is to make her do the dishes!
What will most guys do when they are done eating?
They will simply try to kiss the woman or at least flirt with her!
This is such a lame thing to do because most women are already expecting you to do it and they will not be easy targets because they have objections about being and looking like every other girl!
What you need to do is to get up, start collecting the dishes and then ask her to come with you, give her some dishes to clean, then give her an apron and start doing the dishes together, don't ask her to help you, just look at her and tell her "what are you waiting for?", then hand her other dishes to wash!
Meanwhile, you can start teasing her by criticizing her dishwashing techniques, believe me, women go crazy for such moments and you can "steal" a kiss from her when she is smiling!
These are the most important rules to understand and apply when cooking to impress a woman, believe me, when you apply them; she is going to be genuinely impressed.
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