Thursday, February 28, 2013

How to find, meet and date local women

This is the ultimate guide on how to find, meet and date local women that you have been looking for all these times.

I'm not going to tell you some theoretical techniques about self-confidence or self-esteem, what you are going to learn about in this guide to finding local women are pure techniques, in other words: the How To.













  • Let's start with the first pillar of meeting and dating local women: finding them.


Where do you find local women?

Although this may seem very easy and simple, the reality is that finding and meeting local women is very difficult and tricky.

The first difficulty you have is that most local women you are going to find and meet are not suitable for you, they are either too young/old, ugly, or already in a relationship! This will leave you with very few choices, but if you apply the tricks I'm going to tell you about, you are simply going to outrank every other man in your area and meet all the local women you want.

Most single local women are going to hang out in specific places that most guys don't have a clue about.

  • So, the first place to find local women is local supermarkets and bookshops.


I'm not talking here about malls and other big shopping places, what I'm talking about here is those small supermarkets that you are going to find in your neighborhood.

Unfortunately, most guys would simply neglect these places because they are never going to find a lot of women there, but from my experience and that of thousands of guys, local women are going to shop from those places, and if you start shopping from those local supermarkets too and hanging around just a little bit more, you are going to find some very interesting local women.

At first, you are going to notice women there, and with frequent shopping, you will see some of them frequently and trust me, they are going to notice you and feel comfortable around you when they see you often.

This is an amazing opportunity to start a conversation with them and the best way to do so is to simply ask them for help.

Most women will never say no to a familiar face.

  • The second place to find local women is the gas station.


I'm sure that you must find this idea very weird, but the reality is that local women will have a car and this car needs gas!

This can be a golden opportunity to find local women because it’s a must for these women to go to gas stations and to maintain their cars.

Again, it’s very simple to talk to them, just ask them for advice and they will gladly help you.

  • The third place to find local women is social gatherings.


This is one of my favorite places to find and meet local women. From now on, never miss a social gathering, and by social gathering I mean anything that your community is organizing, a barbecue, politicking events, or simply the neighbors wedding or birthday.

  • The fourth place to find local women is local bars and clubs.


These are one of the most common places to finding and meeting local women in your area, however I do not recommend them if you are a beginner because they tend to have a lot of competition and because most women there are already expecting men to approach them, so they are seeing themselves as queens! In other words, they are unapproachable.

Nevertheless, it’s a great place to meeting local women if you know what you are doing.

  • The fifth place to find local women is the Internet.


You cannot imagine how many women are extremely difficult to approach in real life but are posting their profile on the Internet and constantly looking for Mr. Right.

The best way to meet local women in the Internet is to use Facebook. Just do a quick search related to the area you are living in and you are going to be flooded with profiles to add!

It’s very simple to meet local women using the Internet, send them a friend invitation and don't forget to mention in it that you are new and that you want someone to show you around, trust me, even if this is a lie, a lot of women are going to be intrigued and would want to offer help by showing you the neighbor.

  • Let's now talk about some of the best ways to approach and meet local women.


Approaching women can be very frightening, but if you apply the techniques I'm going to tell you, it’s going to become a very easy and simple process.

  • The first important thing is that you need to be neat.


Women hate to be approached by guys who look terrible, so before going out, always put on some nice clothes, polish your shoes, put on nice cologne, brush your teeth and clean your nails and facial hair.

This is how you increase your chances of not being rejected by women.

  • Now let me tell you about a great way to approach women.














When you see a woman you want to approach, try to notice what she is doing or what she is carrying with her, for example if she is in the supermarket looking at vegetables, have a nice confident smile, go to her and ask her how to cook a certain kind of vegetable, listen to her a little and then tell her "thank you", and go away!

This is how you create intrigue in women and trust me; intrigue is very attractive to them.

Go on your way as if nothing happened and then when you bump into her again, and you should bump into her again, smile at her and comment on the advice she gave you.

I will give you an example from my personal experience:

I was once in the supermarket when I saw a gorgeous woman looking at dogs’ food. I approached her and didn't say hi or hello, I just told her that my dog is having intestinal troubles lately and I needed advice on what food I should give him.

At first, she told me that she wasn't sure, so I asked her about her dog, that’s when she started telling me about it and how she fed him.

I said thank you and I went away, then when I bumped into her, I smiled at her and told her "hi vet!”.

She just smiled and I gave her my card and asked her to write down her phone number and e-mail address. She did.

This is just a small example, I hope you've got a clear idea now on how to find and meet local women.

8 comments:

  1. How about clubs? They're good too to meeting local women, I met my last girlfriend there.

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  2. I love this post, so much information, however, I cant use it as i live in a very strict country.do you know how to date girls and aproch them in such countries?

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  3. Yes, use the same techniques that are recommended in this blog, but be a little more discreet, the more you act and look suspicious, the more girls are going to avoid meeting you

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  4. Yes, they are great but can be a little scary for new comers, my advice is to avoid them at first.

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  5. I have seduced women in clubs, they are fine, but you have to be a pickup artist to master the noise and the drinks

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  6. Me too, I live in Lebanon, it's not as strict as SA but I can seduce women, you have to have the right lines and confidence, that's aall

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  7. I have a better solution for you, instead of trying to scream at women to make them hear you, smile at them and just tlk relaxed, they'll use your body language to read your mood and then, ask them to followw you to a place quitter.

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  8. Good for you man, personaly, I'd find it very hard to seduce women in your country.

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