How to find the right woman for you

Finding the right woman for you is not going to be an easy task, it’s going to be filled with crises and rejections, however if you follow the steps I'm going to lay over to you in this post, it will become very easy and also very successful.

Most men are unsure of what they are looking for, this is why they will be simply looking for a woman, any woman!










This is the main reason why there are so many divorces and so many problems in our society, it’s because men are not knowing what type of women will fit them best and so they will content themselves with any woman they meet without ever having criteria of their own and without ever being fully active in the process of looking and finding the right woman for them.

So, in order to find the right women for you, I'm going to give you essential steps that you must follow, these steps are very easy and will guarantee your success.

• The first step to finding the right women for you is to know what you are looking for.

This is by far one of the most essential steps that you need to undergo in order to find the right woman for you.

Here are the things you need:

A pen and paper!

This may sound a bit boring, but it will determine what you are truly looking for and what you should focus on.

Now, take your paper and draw a table with two columns, like this:

essential	Desirable

In the first column, you are going to write everything that’s essential to you, the things you really can't live without in a woman.

For example, when I first did this exercise, I wrote in the first column: faithful, very nice, educated, big boobs, not taller than me, green or blue eyes, goldish hair, a fantastic sense of humor etc.

These were the things I wrote back then, and trust me they become real for me.

Now, in the second column, you are going to write the things that you desire but can survive without them.

For example, I wrote: is a middle child, lives within ten km of my house, loves dogs, loves Ajax (Amsterdam Football Club), knows how to cook etc.

After doing this exercise, it will become very clear for you what you should focus on and the things you should have in your life in order to attract such a woman.

Of course, you should be authentic with yourself, don't write things that are impossible for you to realize, for example, one of my friends was very short and jobless, and he wrote something like : must be a model!

• The second step to finding the right woman for you is to prepare yourself.

After knowing what kind of women you are going to feel attraction to and that you are willing to accept into your life, it’s time to start preparing yourself and making yourself a very attractive guy for these women.

This step is very easy, you just need to start becoming good looking and to care about yourself little. Nothing difficult, just getting nice clothes, nice colognes , good looking shoes and taking good care of your outer appearance.

However, although this step is very easy to do, it’s one of the trickiest because if you do not know what you need to wear, you are going to find yourself in troubles because you will certainly buy expensive clothes which will not fit you.

To avoid falling into this trap, I highly recommend that you have a look at these websites:

http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/division.do?cid=47057

http://www.guystyleguide.com/blog/2011/09/the-ultimate-mens-clothing-fit-guide/

• The next step to finding the right women for you is to look in the right places.

Unfortunately, most guys are only going to look in bars and clubs for women, these places are certainly very full of hot women, but the truth is that the competition and the women’s psychology there is very tough and if you are a beginner, you will likely be rejected a lot and you won't stand a chance among all the pickup artists in these places!

I don't want to scare you, but this is the reality, and trust me, you will not find the right woman for you there because women, when they are in clubs and bars, are rarely thinking of finding Mr. Right!

The best places to find amazingly attractive and nice women are:

1. Bookshops


2. Coffee shops


3. Department stores


4. University campuses


5. Social gatherings, weddings, anniversaries etc.


6. Through your friends


7. Transportations


8. Supermarkets


9. Health food stores

These places can look very frightening to most guys who wish to approach women there, but the truth is that women who go to these places are going to be nice and very relaxed and they are probably going into these places with the idea of meeting a nice guy.

However if you do not know how to approach women, you won't be able to have success with them.

• That’s why the final step for finding the right women for you is to know how to approach them.

One of the easiest ways to approach women and to have success with them very rapidly is to use questions.

I'm not going to share with you some fancy techniques to approaching women; I'm only going to share with you very easy techniques that would work for you every single time.

When you see a woman that you want to go talk to, simply look at what she is doing, then approach her and don't excuse yourself or say things like "sorry".

Just approach her and asked her about something she's doing.

For example, she is holding a book in a bookstore, ask her if it’s interesting and don't say anything more, just keep looking at her.

The majority of women are going to answer you nicely and politely, keep talking to them and be a little playful and funny, they will like you a lot.

This is how you find the right woman for you.