This is the most important thing to understand about flirting, it’s the fact that you will never flirt with a woman using only words, your body language is extremely important and you are going to use it a lot, in fact, you are going to use your body language 97% of the time you are flirting with a woman and only use words 3%!Let's start with the first body language expression to use for flirting with women: your eye contact.
I cannot emphasize on this enough, it’s the most important expression for flirting with women and the more you master and use it, the more you are going to have success with the ladies.
The first way to flirt with a woman using eye contact is to look at her directly.
Even though you are going to look directly at her, it’s going to make her feel attracted to you , if you are using your eyes the right way.
So, when you are talking to a woman and trying to flirt with her, lean a little and keep looking firmly right into her eyes, while having a nice and attractive smile, stop talking and let her look right into your eyes too, then she is simply going to smile and look down or hit you gently!
This means that she has understood what you are trying to communicate with her and is flirting back with you.
The second body language to use when flirting with women is smiling.
Whenever you are smiling to another person, you are either showing dominance, that you have been dominated by this person, or acceptance!
I know that you are going to feel horrible about smiles now because I've told you their real meaning, but you need to be able to use this information to your own benefits whenever you are with women.
This means that if you are smiling too much when flirting with her, you are simply not being dominant enough and she is not going to like it a lot because to attract her, you have to become dominant.
In order to achieve dominance with your smiles while flirting with women, simply wait a little before smiling.
This will look like a strange technique, but it’s going to make women feel comfortable with you while knowing that you are a dominant and a powerful person.
And believe me, women enjoy dominance and power in men.
The third body language technique to flirt with women is touching.
If you are not touching a woman when you are flirting with her, you are simply going to expose yourself to the dark side of the friend zone!
Yes, the dreaded friend zone!
You are going to fall into it whenever you are not sexual and sensual enough with women, if you do not escalate with them rapidly, you are not going to succeed with them and you are simply going to become their "best" friend.
I was once talking to a female friend of mine and I told her about a guy friend who got stuck in the friend zone with his girlfriend, when I asked her for advice, she simply told me:
"He needs to F her soon!"
I will never forget these words because they are so true.
If you are flirting with a woman, the most important thing you need to focus on is touching her, I don't really care about the amount of touching, what I really care about is the how.
Don't touch women in their private areas when flirting with them, this is not the time to do it, simply touch them on the hand, hair, elbow clothes etc. gently but a little firmly.
One thing I really enjoy is whenever I'm flirting with a woman I really like, I would hold her hand a little and then let's go of it, I may even start playing with her hair or clothes, this is simply a great way to make her understand that you want to be her lover not her friend!!
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