They are women who cannot take charge of themselves, women who cannot find themselves attractive and beautiful by their own, women who always want you to say nice things to them, always wanting you to support them in every way possible, and always trying to get hold of you and be with you! In other words, they are very insecure women who need your approval and acceptance all the time.
When I was young, I thought that having such a woman in my life was a great thing, but soon, I found that they are suffocating, they take the joy out of life, and most frighteningly, they are dangerous because they are the ones who cheats and they are the ones who betray the most easily!
Yes, emotionally needy women are dangerous to any relationship, they are so insecure and so attached to an outcome that whenever they don't reach it, they are the ones to leave first and the ones to end the relationship!
So, how to deal with emotionally needy women?
- The first step is to make them aware of their problems.
I like what most psychologists and psychiatrists do with their patients, first, they make them aware of their problems, then, they go on fixing them.
Awareness is everything, if you are not aware of your issues, how can you correct them? How can you change them?!
No, you need to make her aware of her problems, you need to confront her and tell her that her neediness and other ways of dealing with you is suffocating, it is distressing and it is also destroying the relationship.
So, the first step is to make her aware of her problems, to tell her exactly that she is not doing things the right way and she is probably heading into troubles!
- The second solution and step to dealing with emotionally needy women is to give them the right tools to solve their problems.
First, you need to understand that you cannot solve her problems for her, you cannot help an emotionally needy woman as long as she doesn't want to help herself, to do this, you need to give her the right literature.
Trust me, there are so many books and so many CDs and DVDs to help emotionally needy women in the market right now, and the wonderful thing, is that they are very affordable and they will give such women the strength and knowledge to advance in their lives and become stronger and much more independent.
One of my favorite books is the following: Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It by Kamal Ravikant.
If you know an emotionally needy woman who is ready to change, then give her this book and help her out, she will never forget that you were the person responsible for her awakening and healing.
And in fact, being needy is just being unaware of one's resources and one’s strength, once a woman is aware that she is strong and powerful, she will blossom and she will become truly attractive.
- And the third solution to deal with emotionally needy women is to leave them!
Although I don't like this solution, I think it is very important to consider if the woman you are dealing with doesn't want to change, doesn't want to become aware of her problems and doesn't improve her life, then you have nothing to do with her, she will suck the joy out of your life, and even worse, she is going to cause too much troubles in your life, in fact, most women who are going to cheat and most women who are going to do destructive things to do relationships are very needy and very weak in their personalities!
So, leave her and let her mourn herself, let her grow inside and let her become aware of her problems.
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