I hate to say this, but most girlfriends nowadays are very controlling, and will not feel completely normal and completely fine unless they exert power over you and feel that you are a puppet in their hands, completely overwhelmed by their powers and their strengths!
This is the reason why I've created this website, to empower guys and to make them complete and attractive again.
To us guys, if we are not feeling powerful, we are not going to feel attracted and happy in a relationship.
So, what to do about your controlling girlfriend!?
Well, there are so many ways you can use, and so many techniques you can follow, but most of them are not going to work with you because they are too gentle and very kind! And let me tell you that if you are too kind, you will lose yourself and integrity, you must take your life by the hand and be strong.
The technique I'm going to share with you in this post is very important because if you do not apply it, you are always going to be weak with your girlfriend and she is always going to control your life.
Now, how to know first that you are dealing with a highly controlling girlfriend?
Well, your gut will tell you!
Yes, by saying that your gut will tell you, I mean that you should rely on your instincts, it is because our self-esteem and our psychology has very powerful mechanisms and very powerful signals to tell us that we are not feeling comfortable and that something is wrong.
So, if you are not feeling comfortable with a girlfriend, then she is probably very controlling and she is probably trying to manipulate you.
This is the most important and the most reliable sign in my opinion.
Now, what to do about your too-controlling girlfriend!?
The first thing to do in order to make her less controlling and to make the relationship much happier is to stand for yourself.
I hate to say this, but most guys are very weak, this is the reason why they are so easily controlled by their girlfriends, if you are a weak person and "a nice person" by nature, then you need to understand that many girls are going to control you, create struggles for you and even take advantage of you.
They are simply going to make your life hell!
And in order to get rid of this, the only solution you have is to gain your powers back as a man, and increase your strength, if you don't do it; she is going to keep manipulating you.
And the first thing to do is to stand for yourself, don't allow her to control you, have your word, make your life your own, and most importantly, taking decisions.
Now, let's talk about the second solution in order to stop her from being controlling: lowering your presence.
By this, I mean that you should make her miss you; you should make her wish for you to be around her again.
If you lower your presence around her, she is going to feel needy about you and she is going to love you more and feel vulnerable without you, which is going to make you more controlling in terms of the relationship and much happier.
These are by far the best solutions in order to deal with a highly controlling girlfriend.
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