The first thing you need to understand about needy girlfriends is that they are very difficult to deal with, if you are not powerful and stronger yourself, you will find it very suffocating and very devastating to be around them, you will hate being around her, she will always try to call you, she will always rely on you for making decisions, and when it is time to make decisions, she will always have difficulties making her mind up and choosing for herself, even worse, when you choose for her and she is not satisfied, she will blame you, either verbally or even worse, silently with her accusing looks!
I've already dealt with so many needy girlfriends in my life and I know what works and what doesn't!
- The first solution to deal with a needy girlfriend is to give her more responsibilities.
It is up to you to help her, if you don't want to, you can always confront her, but personally, I find that setting a needy girlfriend to do things and give her responsibilities is the best solution in order to grow her self-confidence and strengths, so, whenever you are able to do this, give her a small challenge, she will hate it at first, but then, she will start to appreciate it, and she will appreciate you because you will be the one showing her the way to solve her problems herself!
- Now, let's talk about the second solution, giving her good literature.
This is by far my favorite solution in order to deal with a needy girlfriend, I tend to give needy women in my life amazing books to read, as gifts on their anniversaries, and I'm not ashamed about it, I tell them that it will do them much good and it is amazing.
My favorite book to give to women is the following: Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It by Kamal Ravikant, be gentle with her and tell her that it has change your life and it will help her as well.
Soon, you are going to find her increasing her strengths and becoming a different woman.
The best surprise is that a needy girlfriend can become a fantastic person to hang out with and build a relationship with as well once she knows what is wrong with her and what she is doing wrong!
- Now, let's talk about the third solution: making her aware.
This is also a fantastic solution, it will reveal her personality to herself, it will help her grow as a person, and most importantly, it will take away the burden from you.
When she is feeling comfortable, just hold her hands and tell her that you need to have an honest conversation with her, then tell her that what she is doing is causing too much damages and too much pain to the relationship, and she needs to become stronger and take more responsibilities in her life, and don't forget to give her examples, from her real-life, this will make her aware that something is wrong with her and that she needs to improve.
These are by far the best solutions to deal with a needy girlfriend, if you have a problem or an issue related to this subject, why not post it on the comment section below; I'd help you as soon as possible.
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