I'm not lying to you when I tell you that this is probably the most important post you can read on this subject. I've spent many years of my life studying women, knowing about their communication and the way they think, and most importantly, learning how they react to us guys!
So, I know that what I'm going to tell you is going to definitely work with you, most importantly; your girlfriend is going to become the happiest female in the word to be with you!
Now, how to make your girlfriend happy?
In order to answer this question, I'm going to give you the most important tips to achieve a satisfying result, and please, I want you to have an open mind because some ideas I'm going to share with you are going to look and even feel very strange and somehow unrealistic, but the reality is that they will work for you.
- The first thing to do in order to make your girlfriend happy is to be a real man!
Yes, this is the idea most guys don't want to talk to, they think that being a real man is related to buying her gifts and saying sweet things to her! But the reality is completely different, if you start spoiling your girlfriend and becoming her puppet, in other words, doing everything she asks you to and being "a nice" boyfriend, she's not going to feel the least happy with you, in fact, she is going to become very dissatisfied with the way you deal with her.
The only way to make your girlfriend happy to be with you is to be a real man, one who takes decisions, one who has his opinions, and one who respect her and most importantly, respects himself.
In other words, what I'm going to ask you is to never take your girlfriend' s horrible behavior easily, in other words, to always defend yourself, to always stand for yourself, and most importantly, to always stand for her.
A real man for example will never allow his girlfriend to play games on him and be manipulative towards him, and although this may sound counterintuitive because you are going to be facing your girlfriend from time to time, this is very important to make her very happy about you, in fact, when you start doing this, she will have respect for you even more, she will begin to love you and want to spend time with you because you make her feel comfortable.
Being a real man is the most important step to making your girlfriend happy.
- The second one is to learn to listen to her.
I'm sure that you have already noticed this: your girlfriend talks a lot!
Don't deny this, I'm sure that you have already seen this in her, she talks and talks and talks! Well, let her do so, but most importantly, be a fantastic listener when she is with you, in fact, encourage her to talk when she is with you, she will feel satisfied with you, and most importantly, she will always want to spend time with you because you make her feel comfortable and feminine.
But the thing to remember here is that your girlfriend may become very "talkative", in other words, she will start telling you about every little detail in her life, from her past boyfriends to even chick stuff, when you find her talking about something you don't really like, simply stop her and tell her that you don't like the subject and she should change it.
- The third way is to let her miss you.
This is the thing I noticed with most guys, whenever they have a girlfriend, they always want to spend time with her, they always want to be in her company and want to feel satisfied of her, well, this is going to damage your reputation with her, in other words, she is going to grow bored of you.
Give her the pleasure of missing you, disappear from time to time, and most importantly, when she meets you again, be a fantastic boyfriend, love her, tell her nice jokes, be a little daring with her, tease her, and most importantly, learn to be a man and to listen to her.
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