This is a very important advice I'm going to talk to you in this post, I'm going to share with you the nicest things to say to your girlfriend in order to make her not only appreciate you, but also want to spend as much time with you as possible.
The problem with most guys is that they simply ignore the fact that girls rely a lot on the language used with them, and even though you may give her all the gifts and all the smiles in the world, she will never feel great about you unless you say what she needs to hear from you!
So, let me share with you some nice things to say to your girlfriend, trust me, I have been in a relationship with the most honest, beautiful, and faithful girlfriend in the word and I know what to say to her, the truth is that she has been with me for the last four years and she is more than happy, she is truly amazing and she likes spending time with me more than spending time with her female friends!
- So, the first nice thing to say to your girlfriend is nothing!
I'm sure that most of you are going to not understand this, but the reality is that the more things you say to your girlfriend, the more you are going to run into troubles with her!
Yes, when you say nice things to your girlfriend, even if you mean them, your girlfriend might not understand them fully, and even worse, she may negatively interpret them!
So, the best thing to do is to focus on her instead of focusing on the words.
Instead of talking to her and saying nice things to her, focus on listening to her, it is the best thing to do for your girlfriend, in fact, I'm sure that you have already noticed this: girls enjoy talking a lot, and when you give your girlfriend space to talk and to express herself with you, she will think that you are the best boyfriend in the world.
So, keep quiet and an open your heart and ears , because this is one of the best things to "say" to your girlfriend, and if you don't believe this, next time you are with her, try to close your mouth and only look at her lovingly, then, listen to her and let her understand that you are listening to her.
- The second nice thing to say to your girlfriend is: thank you.
Most boyfriends are very inconsiderate when it comes to their girlfriends, they may love them, they may enjoy spending time with them, but deep down, they think that they should act strong and manly in front of her, which is very dangerous for the relationship!
For me, one of the best words you can say to your girlfriend is thank you, it says a lot about not only how you appreciate her, but how you appreciate yourself and how you like being with her.
However, don't look very weak by always thanking her, leave it for important occasions, when saying "thank you" is really necessary.
- The third nice thing to say to your girlfriend is loving words.
Whenever you are with your girlfriend, if she is nice and very pleasant to you, try to make her understand that you like spending time with her, try to tell her loving words and that you appreciate being with her and opening up to her, it will make her feel great about you, not only that, but she will appreciate you even more.
- The fourth thing is something funny.
Of course, you cannot have a fantastic relationship with your girlfriend if you are neglecting her, if you are not paying attention to a very important area of her life: her mood!
Girls are always looking for fun things to do and fun things to hear when they are with their boyfriends.
If you neglect this side of her personality, I'm sorry; she will look for another funny person to satisfy it!
This is the thing I would like you to avoid, never be dull, never be boring with her, always surprise her with something funny, always have great moments with her, cheer her a little, after all, these are the things you are going to remember the most about each other when you are apart.
- And the fifth nice thing to say to your girlfriend is teasing her.
I don't know why most guys think that teasing their girlfriends is a horrible thing to do!
When I advise them to do it, they look at me as if I'm going to ruin their relationships!
Well, teasing your girlfriend should be your number one priority when communicating with her, she should understand that you like spending time with her and that you would like to have fun with her.
And what better things to communicate this other than teasing, which is by far the best way to tell your girlfriend that you appreciate being with her.
Of course, by teasing her, I don't mean being rude to her and to hurt her, what I'm talking about is making her laugh in your company, which is the ultimate nice thing to say to your girlfriend.
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