How to use eye contact when flirting with women

I've already written in numerous posts that the most important tool for flirting with women is the eyes, in fact, I cannot imagine or think of a better tool than using eye contact when flirting with women, it’s going to say all the right messages about you, however, to succeed using this amazing tool, you need to know the rules and if you are not aware of the right techniques to use it correctly, you are going to look like a stalker or a criminal!

The first thing you need to understand about using eye contact when flirting with women is to always be the man.

This is one of the most obvious things about flirting with women, however, most guys are simply going to ignore it and think that by hiding themselves and trying not to show their masculinity, women are going to accept them and be attracted to them!

So, let me make this clear to you: to flirt with women, you have to show your masculinity and manhood.

In fact, flirting is all about balancing powers, her feminine powers must be dominated by your masculine powers in order to make her feel attracted to you.

Stop believing all the BS you here about women in the media, it’s not true, women are not looking for a sensitive and "gentle" man, these traits are useful when you are in a relationship, however in dating, you need to show women that you are the man and that you can lead them and dominate them "healthy" and in the right way.

That’s why the most important message to convey to women when flirting is that you are the man.

You simply do this by maintaining eye contact as long as possible.

This will lead me to the second technique: smiling.

Eye contact without a hint of a smile is very dangerous for your success because it’s going to tell women that you are a potential criminal or someone who is not to be trusted!

However, if you use your eye contact with a small hint of a smile, women are going to feel great about you and they are also going to have great confidence in you.

So, simply smile a little when you are maintaining eye contact with women, you are going to appear very seductive and also extremely attractive.

The third technique is to never focus exclusively on her eyes!

By focusing only on her eyes, you are going to look like a criminal or a stalker, the best thing to do when flirting with women using your eyes is to first look right into their eyes and then look at their nose, face, cheeks, lips, neck, ears, upper lip etc.

Women have confessed this to me over and over, they told me that they feel so aroused when a man starts looking at their facial features this way, they cannot resist it!

This is all you need to know about using your eye contact when flirting with women, if you have a question or a comment, please post it in the form below.

How to make eye contacts with women

I've said before that the best tool to attract women and make them have a great first impression of you is your eyes. Whenever you make eye contact with a woman the right way, she is going to feel highly attracted to you and she is going to want to know you more.

It’s because eye contact is going to communicate all the right things about you, your confidence, your self-esteem and most importantly your manly desires.

I'm sure that this is going to look strange, but women are interested in your masculine desires, in other words, your sexual desires towards her! If a woman feels that you are not fully interested in her, she will not like you a lot.

This means that you have to convey to women your desire and your intentions towards them, and the best tool you can use is your eyes.

However, making eye contact with women demands a lot of know-how, and most guys simply don't have it!

If you start applying the techniques I'm going to share with you in this post, you are going to have amazing success with women just through using your eye contact.

The first technique is to always focus on one woman.

I've had this problem before, I started making eye contact with as many women as possible and soon, I was looking stupid and no woman was caring about me.

It’s because women are going to notice whether you are interested in her or you are a "player", and trust me, one thing women hate is a player!

The moment you start playing around with your eyes, women are going to notice you and label you as a player, needless to tell you that your chance are going to get very small.

So, only focus on one woman in your interactions and eye contact.

The second technique is to not focus on the eyes.

Even though most guys and most articles on the internet tend to advise you to focus on women's eyes, I do not recommend this as this is not going to work.

If you keep maintaining your eye contact with women and only looking at their eyes, they will get scared of you and they will simply have a hard time knowing your true intentions.

It’s because many criminals and sick people are going to focus on the eyes as well, the best thing you can do is to start caressing women's facial parts with your eyes, for example, whenever you are maintaining eye contact, look at her ears, neck, lips, nose etc.

This way, women are going to feel that you are sexually interested in them and that you are trying to attract them and not a threat to them.

The third technique to make eye contact with women is to be playful.

If you maintain eye contact with a woman long enough, with the second technique in mind, you are going to attract her, but after some few minutes of doing this, you are going to look very boring and a bit suspicious, that’s why you need to apply this third technique as soon as possible.

Simply smile when you are making eye contact with a woman, it’s going to reassure her and tell her everything she needs to know about you and your intentions without ever talking to her.

The fourth technique is talking to the woman.

Eye contact alone is not going to make her attracted and crazy about you, you need to approach the woman and talk to her, in other words, you need to flirt with her and make her feel great about you.

After smiling and maintaining eye contact with a woman, your next move is to go talk to her and get her phone number.

Don't believe people telling you about their adventures and crazy things they did, most of them are liars, the best thing you can do is to simply get her phone number and try to get a date with her as soon as possible.

Four flirty conversation starters to use with beautiful women

There are many ways you can start conversations with women, but my favorite ones relies on using the flirty conversation starters you are going to read about, they are very fun and very pleasing as well, and please don't expect to find verbal sentences, this is not the case, most of flirting is done through body language and I'm going to show you a combination of conversation starters that are both flirty and extremely attractive to women.

The best conversation starters when texting girls

One of the most wonderful tools to use for flirting with women and making them attracted to you is your mobile phone, now with the ease-of-use of most smart phones and their abilities to make communication and texting extremely easy, most girls are going to use them to know more about you and even to test you.

The best books to learn how to talk to women

I didn't learn how to talk to women by myself, I had to meet a lot of people and a lot of women who showed me the best techniques and the best ways to not only talk to women successfully, but to also be the successful man I am today in many areas of my life!

I'm going to share with you some of the best books you can read in order to learn how to talk to women the right way.

Most of these books are extremely affordable and when you read them, you are definitely going to think that they are not meant to seducing women, but I had the same idea when I first heard of them, and when I started applying the advices in them, my life simply changed dramatically, for the better.

The first book to learn how to talk to women is: Nonviolent Communication, A Language of Life.

This book really changed my life, it changes my way of communication and more importantly it changed how I listen to people.

Before reading this book, I simply thought that people were communicating out of lack of information and instincts, but through reading this book, I realized that every person has got to needs and things he needs satisfied, you can truly communicate deeply with people and create lasting relationships with them by knowing what their needs are!

This is not a book about manipulating people, it’s a book about realizing our human potential and realizing that we have needs and without these needs, we cannot be human!

I highly recommend that you read this book at least four times, don't care about talking to women unless you read this book because it will simply change your life for the better.

The second book on how to talk to women is: No More Mr. Nice Guy

I've really enjoyed reading this book, it is not only going to tell you about how to start becoming an attractive man, it’s also going to make you realize how much valuable you are and how women are interested in dating you.

What I feel is that by reading these two books, you are not only going to learn how to talk to women efficiently, you are also going to transform into a very attractive human being, forget about talking to women, these books are going to achieve this results very quickly, what you are going to get out of these books is lots of experiences, especially when it comes to communication.

Emotionally needy men, why they are not attractive to women?

One of the worst characteristics you can have as a man is being emotionally needy; it’s going to simply drive women away from you!

So, why are women not attracted to emotionally needy men!?

How to meet christian women

I've read many posts and articles on the internet about meeting Christian women, and I know from fact that most of these posts are not practical and full of fluff!

That’s why I've decided to try to write the simplest and most extensive post in order to help you meet Christian women easily and successfully.

The first step to meeting your Christian woman is to take a pen and paper!

Trust me, everything must be planned before it’s executed, you should never leave something as serious as finding your soul mate to chance and luck!

In the paper, simply write down the things you would like to have in your Christian woman, her personality, her body features, her education, her height, her aspirations, her boobs, her faith etc.

You need to write as much details as possible, even eye color, everything should be written down!

It’s because when your mind starts having a clear vision of what you want, it will guide you and achieve it for you.

The second step is to start looking for your ideal Christian woman.

One of the simplest and most effective things to do in order to meet Christian women is to ask other Christian women to help you!

I did it myself many times and it’s simply one of the most successful and easiest techniques to meeting women, just ask Christian women you already know about other Christian women that are single and looking.

Trust me; this is going to get you amazing results very quickly.

In fact, women love to help their female friends find good guys.

The second step to meeting Christian women is to always look locally.

It’s absolutely stupid what most guys tend to do in order to meet women, they are going to travel far away and even go to foreign countries with different languages and cultures! Whereas there are absolutely thousands of single women waiting for them just a few miles from where they live!

So, the second most successful way to meeting Christian women is to look locally for them.

Don't miss church again, go to as many churches as possible even if it’s not Sunday, and look for any social events that are organized in there, you are going to find a huge number of single women there! It’s because they know that in a church, they are can meet a good and single Christian man too.

The third place to meet in single and beautiful Christian women is through the Internet.

You can pay less than thirty dollars a month and meet the most beautiful and available Christian women you can ever dream of, you just need these steps:

1. Have great profile pictures, at least four


2. Keep posting messages and e-mails to as many women as possible


3. And the final step is to try to get phone numbers and call these women, it’s much better than typing in the computer!

When you are satisfied with a woman, simply ask to meet her in person, don't become an online dating site junkie, get her out of the Internet as soon as possible.

Now, let's talk about the most important step: how to seduce and talk to a Christian woman.

You must understand that all women are looking for one thing in a man: fun!

Don't believe what most women are going to tell you: that they are looking for a serious man! They are lying! They are simply looking for a fun and entertainer guy who can make them laugh and have a great time with.

That’s why one of the best things you can do is to improve your personality and become much more fun to be with and start reading fun magazines and watching standup comedians, they are simply one of the best things to increase your humor and your social abilities.