This is the reason why I'm going to give you the following signs of a controlling girlfriend, you need to use them and make sure she is not dangerous for the relationship or your personal development as well.
The problem with most girlfriends is that they are controlling by nature, this means that most guys are going to think at first that it is very dangerous for them and even suffocating and burdening for the relationship, but the reality is that most girlfriends are controlling in their nature, as mentioned before, and you only need to understand one thing: as far as she is not suffocating you, everything is okay, you need to understand that most girlfriends are going to control you, and if you are feeling okay with this, then there is nothing wrong with her.
However, if you notice any of these signs, then things are not going well with her!
So, here are the most important signs of a controlling girlfriend:
- The first sign is that she whines and blames easily.
Most girlfriends are going to blame from time to time, but if your girlfriend is always blaming you for things that are outside of your control, or she is always trying to find fault in you, then you are definitely with a very controlling girlfriend.
What do I mean by blaming?
Well, she is always trying to find fault in you, she is always trying to make you responsible of her happiness and responsible for everything bad that's happened to the relationship or to her!
This is the reason why most guys cannot withstand being in a controlling relationship with such a girlfriend, and the best way for you to deal with her is to make her understand that you are not to be played with, you are to be respected and she is to take control of her life instead of trying to control the lives of others.
- The second sign of a controlling girlfriend is disrespect.
When she is not able to control you or she finds/senses resistance in you, she will start downing you, she will start ridiculing you and even accusing you of things that are not real!
For example, a friend of mine always suffers with his girlfriend, she always accuse him of not loving her enough and not sacrificing everything in order to make her happy, when she asks him to buy her something that's beyond his means, when he refuses, she will always find fault in him and she will always try to make him understand that she is superior to him!
So, this sign is very important to spot in your girlfriend, and if she is not acting this way, then her controlling manners are completely fine and she is just too caring for the relationship.
- The third sign is wanting to have things her way.
Whenever you contradict her and whenever you want to make things your way, she is going to oppose you, she is going to throw tantrums at you, screaming, being manipulative and even stop talking to you!
If she starts acting this way, then you are definitely dealing with a very controlling girlfriend, and if you keep on withstand this behavior from her, she is going to keep on increasing her tantrums to the point of even becoming aggressive and negative with you all the time!
These are the most important signs of a controlling girlfriend, if you have a problem or an issue and would like to talk about it, why not ask me in the comment section below, I'd be more than happy to help you out.
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