Am I a controlling girlfriend?

In this post, which is designed for girls, I'm going to reveal to you whether you are a controlling girlfriend or not.

But first, you must understand that even if you are a highly controlling girlfriend, it doesn't mean that you are bad as a person, it simply means that you are not feeling highly confident about the person you are with and you are trying to fill a void in the relationship.

Now, how to know whether you are a controlling girlfriend or not?

Well, the first thing you have to do is to judge yourself objectively, to use the signs I'm going to talk about in this post to understand yourself more and tell yourself whether you are a controlling person or not.

• The first sign is that you always want things to be your way.

If your boyfriend or the guy you are with says something opposites to your ideas and beliefs, you will feel angry and you will even feel bad about yourself, you are going to even feel weak!

And this is by far the most important sign when it comes to whether you are a controlling girlfriend or not, the way you feel around strong people!

If you feel weak and miserable around people who are very powerful and people who are self-confident and have things their ways, then you are by nature a controlling girlfriend.

• The second sign that you are highly controlling girlfriend is lack of trust.

Once you start doubting someone and feeling that he or she might be doing something behind your back, even if your mind tells you that everything is okay and that you are not dealing with a cheater, then you are using your highly controlling senses and highly controlling mentality.

And let me tell you that this sign is probably the most important one: it is lacking trust in other people and always wanting things to be your way, always wanting others to comply to you and follow your orders or else you are going to feel weak and highly vulnerable!

These two signs are probably the most important ones when it comes to telling whether you are a controlling person or not.

But the third one I'm going to talk about in this post is probably the most critical in terms of telling you quickly whether you are controlling girlfriend or not.

Wanting others to change!

When you start bossing others around and criticizing them in order to change them and in order to make them comply to you, then you are a controlling person, you do not accept others as they are, you do not tolerate people who are different than you, and you want people to always refer to you and always be around you!

And this is what I'm talking about when I tell you that this sign is probably the most important one when it comes to revealing to you whether you are a controlling girlfriend or not.

So, if you are feeling over jealous over your boyfriend and you are always trying to manipulate him and be with him just to feel happy and just to feel confident and having a high self-esteem, then you are a highly controlling girlfriend.

And if you would like help, the first thing to do is to start letting go, start believing in the good intentions of other people, and I have to tell you that you have probably been cheated on or have been manipulated in the past, and this is the reason why you are trying to control others.