I have to be honest with you, it is very difficult and also very emotionally painful as well, but all is not lost, if you use the advice in this post, you can certainly turn things to your advantage again and win her back.
Of course, if you don't have this in mind, you can use her text messages as a proof and get rid of her if you would like to, but if you deeply feel that she deserves a second chance and you can win her again, then, use the advice I'm going to provide to you in this post.
- So, what to do about your wife texting another man?
The first thing you must understand is that the causes are not important, what is important is the reality you are living in now!
However, I must remind you that it is a bit your fault because you have either chosen the wrong woman or because you were not very protective of your wife, you weren't very jealous about her and you weren't very territorial and setting strong boundaries with her from the beginning.
But today, we are not going to talk about this; I'm going to explain to you how to make things work again.
- The first step when you find out that your wife is texting another man is to check whether she is intimate, sexually, with him or not!
If you found out that she is having an affair with him and it is beyond emotional cheating, then you have nothing to do with this woman and the only thing you can do is to gather proofs while staying calm and intelligent about it, work your case without her being aware of what you are doing, then, get rid of her while taking advantage of everything you can!
However, if you have found that she has started emotionally cheating on you only recently and she hasn't had any physical intimacy with him yet, then all is not lost!
You must understand that women are very fragile creatures, they get bored very easily and they are all the time looking for excitements, if you cannot provide this excitement, she is going to look elsewhere!
Most of the time, it may be just a whim and she may be just trying to pass time and have a positive boost of self-confidence and self-esteem, because the other man is going to compliment her and say nice things to her, so, most of the time, you have nothing to worry about when it comes to your wife texting another man, if she hasn't met him and been intimate with him yet, because she may be just feeling depressed and lonely and you may be away all the time.
But if you deep down judge and sense that she is not worthy of a second chance, then by all means, get her out of your life.
- Now, how to deal with a wife who is texting another man?
Follow these steps:
Number one, make sure she isn't in a physical relationship with him, as mentioned before.
Number two, start acting nicely with her again, start spending more time at home with her more often, start cherishing her, learn how to make good love to her, learn how to tease her and how to be attractive again with her, don't tell her that you have found her texts and don't tell her that you are suspecting her of cheating, keep your calm and win her back to you without raising her suspicions.
Number three, you need to get her out more often, spend time alone with her, learn to cherish her and learn to make love to her again, I highly recommend that you invest in a wonderful book called she comes first.
Number four, check her text messages again, if you see that she has stopped texting this man, then act as if nothing has happened while also keeping an eye on her and always checking her mobile phone, be aware of local laws as this may be illegal in some states!
Number five, if you found out that she is still texting this man, then you have nothing to do with her, you must leave her and you must confront her.
I know that a wife is texting another man can be very difficult and also very depressing, but the best thing to do is to try to win her back if she hasn't had an affair with him, but if she had, then you must leave her, it is the only choice you have.
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