Most guys are simply going to neglect such advice I’m going to give you, they think that the best way to make up with their girlfriends is to go to her and say sorry!
Well, let me tell you what is going to happen: you are going to say sorry, she is going to look you right in the eyes or even worse, not answer your text messages, she is going to ignore you and keep on with her life!
After many trials and errors, and after many sorrys, she is finally going to forgive you, but you will always feel bitter about this, and on the next occasion, you are going to screw things up even worse!
It is because your self-esteem has never forgotten the way she treated you when you were wrong with her!
If your relay on this, you will find yourself without a girlfriend very quickly!
So, the best thing to do is to follow the steps I'm going to recommend to you in this post, they are very important not only to make up with your girlfriend, but to also prevent her from ever going crazy on you again and from making your life miserable!
So, what is the first step to make up with your girlfriend?
- Let time do the trick!
The things I'm going to recommend to you in this post may sound very difficult to apply and use, but they are fantastic and they will work every single time with you!
When you are in troubles with your girlfriend, better leave her on her own, better leave her sort things out with herself, better leave her find inner peace with herself and find out that she misses you and would like you to call her and be with her again.
The worst thing to do is to try to call her and make up with her immediately!
It will only make her reluctant and even worse, make her think that you are weak and that she should probably find another boyfriend instead of you!
And let me tell you that girlfriends don't like weak boyfriends! This is what my girlfriend always says!
Yes, leave her be, leave her on her own, and after five days, she will start feeling good again, she will start missing you, and she will even start feeling that maybe it’s her fault!
- Now, let's talk about the second step: start things slowly.
Don't try to rush things; don't try to send her an apologizing text in which you express your true emotions about her and why you are the worst boyfriend in the world for treating her this way!
Don't do it, instead, call her or text her about something casual, something you remember, and ask to meet her, when you do, act as if nothing has ever happened, this way, she will be both very angry and also very passionate about you, as explained before, girlfriends like strong boyfriends, when you are strong, even if you are an A hole, she will like you much more and she will enjoy spending time with you.
- Then, comes the third and most important step: apologizing.
If it is your fault, then, you need to apologize to her, don't try to play games with her, don't try to tell yourself that even if you are wrong, she should come back to you no matter what happened!
If you have hurt her, then please, take the time and apologize to her, tell her that you are sorry and that you really feel bad about doing this to her!
However, if you haven't done anything bad or wrong to her, never apologize, this will only push her to play twisted games with you more and be much more aggressive later on with you!
- Now, how do you apologize and make up with your girlfriend?
You simply look her right in the eyes, tell her that you are sorry and tell her how bad you felt about doing such a thing to her, it should be quick, easy, and simple, if she doesn't like what you have told her, it is up to her to judge things for herself, you have done what is important, now everything is in her hands.
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