Do women like compliments?
This may sound like a very naïve and simple question, but it deserves to be answered because most guys who are going to have troubles and problems when complimenting women are not going to understand what went wrong!
To guys, it can be very difficult to understand why a woman won’t answer their compliments politely or even worse, won't at least smile or look happy when they compliment her!
So, do women really like to be complimented?
The answer is yes, but the problem doesn't lie with this, the problem lies with the fact that women don't want to be complimented by weak and unattractive guys, they don't want to be complimented by guys who would like to "trick" them and use them, they don't want fake compliments, they don't want insincere and canned compliments!
This is the idea that most guys are never going to understand: the fact that when they use boring and extremely obvious compliments for attracting women, they are only hurting themselves!
Women are much more intelligent than what most guys think, they imagine that by saying something nice to her, she is going to feel immense attraction and won't stop herself from smiling and being nice to him!
This is what most guys are going to think, but it is completely different!
Yes, women like compliments, but only when they are truthful and honest, otherwise, they are only going to hurt you when you use them.
Of course, I can give you a list of hundreds of compliments you can use with women, and they are all fantastic, but the real problem lies with the fact that most guys don't have the right self-confidence and body language to use them.
When they start using and saying them, they are going to look and sound weak and needy, and this is extremely devastating not only to your self-confidence, but also to that of the woman as well because she will feel horrible deep down for being rude to a sweet guy who uses such compliments.
Now, let's talk about another important subject: do women like to give compliments?
Most guys are going to notice that women are rarely going to give them compliments, is this normal?
The reality is that women don't give compliments a lot, and when they do, you have to be careful!
Women are extremely savvy and canny when it comes to communication, they know how to manipulate words, and when they want something, they may come to you and give you a nice compliment about something that you really like, then, you will find yourself doing her a favor and feeling horrible afterwards!
Yes, women like to give compliments from time to time, but it not free, unless she likes you!
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