- The first important rule is to start by loving yourself.
Don't worry; I'm going to give you amazing techniques later on to find a woman who loves you, just keep on reading every single step.
If you have an empty bucket, you will always want people to fill it for you, this is the same thing with love, if you don't love yourself, you have an empty emotional bucket, you will always desire women to love you and approve and respect of you, which is extremely frightening to them, they don't love it, they don't want it, instead, they want a man who can love them, a man who is already satisfied with himself, a man who has his bucket already full.
I'm sure that this is going to sound very confusing to most of you, but it is very important to understand: you need to first love yourself, you need to first agree with yourself and accept yourself fully, otherwise, you are going to have difficult troubles with women, you will find yourself alone and not understanding what to do next.
How does someone love himself?
By loving yourself, what I mean is complete acceptance of who you are now, think of the good attributes you have, think of how great you will be, think of how you attract women and make them feel great, think of all the advantages and benefits a woman is going to take from a relationship with you.
If you don't find that you have many, then you need to work on yourself and you need to improve yourself to become lovable.
That's why I highly recommend to start with self-help materials, go to your favorite bookstore and look for bestsellers in the self-help section, read them vigorously, you will improve!
- The second rule is to stop giving importance to women.
In life, I've learned this very important lesson: when I chase something, it disappears!
I'm sure that you have noticed the same as well, it is the same thing with women, when you start chasing them, they are going to run away from you.
So, what to do?
The only option you have is to start giving importance to yourself, to ignore women, to not be needy around them and live your life for yourself, stop paying attention to them, stop trying to win their approval of you, instead, approval of yourself and as said before, love yourself.
Now, let's talk about one of the most important steps you have to do in order to find a woman who loves you: go out every single day.
If you apply the two previous rules, you will become one of the most attractive man in the world, and you will have no problems finding a woman who is going to sincerely and truly love you, but there is a very important step you need to take: go out every single day!
Don't rely on others to find you dates, don't rely on lack, don't think that a woman is going to be assigned to your office and she is going to madly fall in love with you and raise a family with you!
This is media BS, don't believe this, the only thing you need to believe is that if you do not go out every day to meet women, you will find yourself alone and depressed because they are not going to come to you, it is you who should go to them.
These are the most important steps and rules in order to find a woman who truly loves you.
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