Sunday, May 17, 2015

How to compliment women

If you would like to compliment women, you need to know what you are doing, because you are certainly going to find yourself in deep troubles if you have no idea what you are saying and most importantly when you are saying it!

This is the reason why I'm going to share with you some amazing advice when it comes to how to compliment women and how to create a feeling of respect, attraction and also a communication which is very gentle and sincere.

  • The first rule you need to respect when it comes to complimenting women is to never do it too often.


If you keep complimenting a woman over and over all the time, she is going to become fed up with you and she is soon going to feel strange about you, after a short while, she is going to start avoiding you whenever you are trying to talk to her or even when she sees you!

I'm sure that what I'm saying here is going to sound terrible to most of you, but this is the reality, women don't want you to compliment them all the time, in fact, you need to think of compliments as treats, something rare and also something very "yummy" to women!

This is the most important rule when it comes to complimenting women, and if you don't respect it, you are soon going to find yourself in the friend zone and feeling strange and perplexed about what you have done wrong with her!

  • The second rule you need to respect when complimenting women is never be direct!


I see this all the time with guys, especially sweet and nice ones, they think that by saying to a woman that she is beautiful or that she is very attractive, they are complimenting her the right way!

Well, this is not the truth, in order to compliment a woman and to succeed at it; you have to always be indirect!

For example, if you would like to tell a woman that she is beautiful, it would be very wise if you compliment her on her eyes for her skin or the way her hair looks.

I'm sure that most guys are not going to agree with me when it comes to this idea, but this is one of the most important rules to respect when it comes to complimenting women and succeeding at it.

  • The third rule is to ask yourself whether you are complimenting her for gaining favors or for making her yours!


You have to be honest with yourself, if you are complimenting a woman in order to make her your girlfriend or your wife, then you need to be very careful and never use compliments all the time, use them once every three weeks!

Yes, this is how much you need to be using compliments with the woman you are interested in, otherwise, she is going to sense something strange coming from you and she may not like this feeling!

However, if you are complimenting a woman in order to gain favors, for example your boss or your mother, you can use compliments as much as you would like to, but always be indirect, if you are direct and using them all the time, she is going to feel suspicious about you and she may not like it.

  • Now, let's talk about the most important rule on how to compliment women: don't rely too much on words!


If you keep using words all the time with women, they are not going to receive your messages loud and clear!

You must understand that women are fantastic at reading body language and at communicating, and they do not use words all the time, although they are masters at it, in fact, women are going to communicate with each other's all the time using just body language and gestures.

Now, if you would like to compliment a woman you really like, don't tell her often what you are thinking of, just look at her and smile or keep looking innocently, she will know what you are doing.

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