How to flirt and tease

In this post, I'm going to talk about the most important steps in order to flirt and tease, they are very important if you would like to have a very successful relationship and dating life, and unfortunately, if you don't know how to do it, you will always feel a void in your personality and a void in the way you deal with the opposite sex.

• So, the first step on how to flirt and tease is to always have control of yourself.

Whenever you are flirting and teasing and you don't know what you are doing or even worse, you are relying on random events in order to succeed, then, you are putting yourself at high risk!

Indeed, you are simply putting yourself at the mercy of other people, the opposite sex you are teasing and flirting with!

And this is probably the worst thing you can do when flirting and even when starting a new relationship; it is setting up yourself as not in control!

Yes, both girls and boys are going to hate people who are indecisive, especially when they are flirting and teasing, and trust me, it is very apparent and if you don't know how to flirt and tease correctly, you are never going to have a strong and healthy relationship with a girl or a boy and even worse, you are always going to be perceived as weak and unattractive!

So, as mentioned before, the first step in order to flirt and tease is to always have control of yourself.

What do I mean by control over one's self?

Simply that you know what you are doing, that everything you do is wanted and consented by you, everything is intentional!

This is what I mean by have control of yourself, and trust me, once you achieve this, you will always feel fantastic about yourself, you will never have fears about dating and approaching.

• The second step on how to flirt and tease is to be mildly funny.

This is the problem I see most guys and girls do all the time when they are flirting: they try to be comedians!

They are going to have lots of fun, they are going to laugh their hearts out and most importantly, they are going to keep pushing themselves in order to always have the best jokes and the funniest lines!

Well, this is the worst thing to do if you are teasing and flirting, it is because you will set yourself as the clown in the group!

Yes, I've already suffered from this and I know it is not very attractive!

So, whenever you are flirting and teasing, always remember that you should do things mildly, never push yourself to the limit, never be a clown, and always try to have fun your way.

• The third step in order to flirt and tease successfully is to be ready to let go.

Don't be too attached, don't be too dependent on other people, and if you see things not going your way, be ready to leave!

It is by far one of the best things I can give you when it comes to teasing and flirting, if you don't like what you are going through, simply leave!

I know that this is going to look hurtful, but it is a necessary evil that you should always be ready to do.

It is because sometimes when you are flirting and teasing, things may not be going well, things may go the wrong way very quickly, and you may even insult or hurt someone! That's why you need to always be ready to say bye and move on.

Yes, these are the most important steps in order to flirt and tease successfully.