However, to achieve this, I need to tell you the truth about meeting women: it is difficult if you are just starting!
This is the thing that most dating experts are never going to tell you, they are always going to minimize your efforts; they will always tell you that it is not a big deal, "just be yourself" etc.
Well, let me reveal the facts to you: meeting women can be a little difficult at first; it is because you don't have the right body language, you don't have the right mindsets, and most importantly, you don't know what to do and what to say!
So, in order to meet women, these are the areas that I'm going to talk about in this post:
- The first way to meet women is to learn how to master your body language.
In order to meet the ladies and be successful with them, you must understand how your body communicates with them!
Yes, even when you are standing, your body is sending so many information about you visually to women, that's why when you try to approach a woman without even saying a word, she may turn her head and walk away!
It is because your body said something completely unattractive to her!
And indeed, your body communicates all the time with women, and if you do not know how to make it say the right things to them, you will always have horrible results whenever you approach them and whenever you try to meet them.
To train your body to communicate properly with women, use the following tactics:
- Stop tensing your muscles, relax your body completely.
- Don’t smile too much at women, close your mouth at first when you want to approach them.
- Don’t frown! I know that the previous advice required you not to smile a lot, but on the other hand, don't frown, it is scary!
- Have the right eye contact, don't use your eyes like a psychopath, instead, relax them and look comfortably at women, they will appreciate it
These are the most important areas to care about in order to have the perfect body language to seduce and attract women.
- Now, let's talk about the second way to meet women: taking good care of your outer looks.
Now that you have your body language handled, you should start taking good care of the way you look.
My favorite advice to give guys is to either find a nice woman who is ready to help them choose their clothes or go to a shopping center or mall and ask women in clothing stores for help and assistance.
In fact, girls in clothing stores are paid in order to help you, just make your credit card ready and fully loaded, and then head to a mall, and one more thing, don't think that buying the most expensive clothes is the best thing to do!
It is not, it is flashy, and it tells women the wrong things about you if you don't have the right self-confidence, buy every day clothes that are nice and very simple, yet, they must be of good quality and the colors must be harmonious.
- Let's talk now about the third way to meet women: conquering your fears!
I didn't use the words "get rid of" your fears, I used the word "conquer" because your fears are always in a battle with you; they are always trying to win over you and "protect you" from everything surrounding you!
Yes this is the reason why you will always have fears, because they, fears, would like to protect you and avoid harm happening to you.
So, whenever you are interacting with women and trying to meet them, tell yourself that your fears are there to protect you, and in such a situation, they should not.
You must understand that to meet women successfully, you will experience huge fears at first, relax, don't blame yourself, it is completely natural.
When I was just starting, I nearly passed out when a friend of mine introduced me to a hot girl I had a crush on!
Don't worry, it will pass, and soon, you will find yourself meeting women very easily.
- And the fourth way to meet women is to go out every single day.
This is the advice most guys hate enormously, they think that they can watch Games of Thrones, play World of Warcraft and other video games all day and then go out just for an hour, get a date and bring her home!
Things don't work this way, in order to meet women and to be successful with them; you have to expose yourself to a lot to them.
In the end, dating and meeting women is a numbers' game.
I myself met hundreds of women before finding the perfect girlfriend, and let me tell you that it was worth it, all the women I've met were learning experiences, and even though I was rejected many times, when I think about it now, I have a smile and think that I'm glad I experienced this because I am with this wonderful person now.
You should do the same, you should go out as much as possible, get rejected as much as possible, try your best, and soon you will find yourself with an amazing person and a fantastic personality, in the end, you will have a great girlfriend who is going to watch Games of Thrones with you and declare you to be her King!
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